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So, I just met this guy at a party in November. I did not see him twerking with anyone at this party because I wasn't paying any attention to him.

They say where you meet a person can make a real impact on you and that person's future, which I agree with. Anyway, so I personally think twerking is super sexual. The girl is grinding her butt against a guy's dick, like I think it's pretty bad, which is why it makes me uncomfortable to do it. So , I don't twerk. I dance, but I don't twerk on any guys.

I know we are young and I'm a sophomore in college and so is he, so I wouldn't ask him to give up twerking. But, while, we are dating I just feel like I should never SEE him do that with another girl...

Okay, so you know how I feel about twerking and so does he.

Here's the BIG issue: him and I go to different schools. My school is hosting a big formal party that both his school and my school will be at. We talked it over, and he just said that we should go and see what happens. But, I think that's reckless. I think if I see him twerking with several different girls, I will not want to date him anymore. And, I think if he sees several guys flirting with me, he will be jealous. I can just see this ending very badly for both of us. On top of that, since he doesn't like dancing with girls from his school, he'll be dancing with girls from MY school 😟. People who are friends with me 😩🙈.

Since, it's my schools party, I feel like he should sit this one out. Or we should stay on opposite sides of the room. Or we both don't go. Or we stop talking to each other.

Again, I know him and I are just dating now. But, I can see this being a really big problem in the future. What do you think we should do?

Traditionally, I believe the "He's Just Not That Into You" theory. If a guy likes you, he'll make time to be with you. The question then becomes HOW MUCH TIME will that be? Should we be expected to swap daily constant texts etc. (which is a little over the top for me) or is the connection at the end of the week enough during the flirting/dating phase?

I don't like the borderline stalker who is always texting "where are you?" or the creepy fellow who doesn't know you at all but texts you "good morning"/"good night" with smoochy emoji daily... It's too much, especially with a new person you don't know well.

But what if a guy is busy all the time? I don't mean the "I can't talk, I'm busy" type, but the guy who has been single long enough that he doesn't actually cull out time to be on his own, relaxing, inactive with the potential to fill the gap with social activities or a relationship.

Which brings me to the fellow my friend is trying to set me up with. He's a nice guy and the 4S's -- smart, sweet, sexy, single -- which is great, but he's not ever really available. Even the time he makes to chat with ends with him getting caught up in business or between clients etc. A couple of times since we've met he's taken the time to meet with me, but always ends up being called to business by other people.

Is it worth the effort to be patient and see if he makes more of an effort?