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I have a boyfriend but he lives in another state and I only see him once a month. I would never physically cheat on him, but I do flirt with this guy at my school quite a lot. He knows I have a boyfriend and that I wouldn't cheat, but we both know and have told each other that we would have sex (or at least make out) if I was single. But he's also been a good friend and I thought maybe admitting it to each other that we are attracted to one another would relieve sexual tension and make our friendship better. Am I totally in the wrong here? and should I stop?

He knows I'm attracted to him and we have incredible chemistry, mental and physical. We play fight, shove, touch each other a lot, sit pressed up against each other and have hugs that last long enough to talk through.

Since he knows I want him he sends me kissy face emojis then says he meant to send it to his gf and it was a mistake. Of he'll eye fuck me or make kissy lips at me and say jk.

Is he just kidding? Is he full of shit? I know I would never do this day after day with the same person if I didn't want to bang them.

Does he just enjoy flirting but not cheating on his gf? Am I just some harmless fun? Does he want to get with me but feels conflicted?

The sexual tension between us is crazy. I tried to get him to cool off after I told him all his flirting was making me want him and if he wasn't going to cheat he needed to stop flirting with me. He said he had never meant it as flirting but was sorry for leading me on.

I quit flirting to try to kill my feelings but he keeps getting more intense and egging me on. He really likes to act like he's going to kiss me because he knows I like his lips. Today we had to take a test and he kept making fuck me eyes at me and I told him to quit so I could concentrate.
He's very touchy feely with me and also with guys, but no other girls.

How do I get him to stop messing with me? I told him to stop flirting but he won't admit he's flirting. If it's all a joke to him, I'm just a bad sport if I can't take a joke. I can't really think he'd joke about the same thing so much, though.

My guy friend knows I'm attracted to him but he has a gf. This doesn't stop him from talking about the wildest sex stuff where he knows I can hear him. Then I act offended and he pretends to not want to tell me but then he tells me. Just this week it's been about a girl getting f'd by a horse and today was about hate sex and using the alphabet technique to eat a girl out. The guy was spelling I hate you with his tongue and she loved it. He likes to bug me and make me mad. He might think I'd like hate sex. We have a lot of tension. He's asked me about my sex life and tells me about his. We hug each other a lot but they seem like more than normal friend hugs. He holds me really close, for a long time, rubs his face on mine and it seems like we're the only people around.

Why is he talking to me about sex every day when he knows I would like to but he won't? I've told him to stop flirting with me if he's not interested because I don't want to be led on. I don't know if he's just acting like we're close friends who can talk about anything or if there's a reason behind why so much of what he talks about with me is xxx rated? Does he want something? by the way, he's my only guy friend who says stuff like this so often. He seems to get a kick out of my reactions.

He also sends me shirtless snaps and pics of him with his long hair down, which he knows I like, and of him drinking whole bottles of wine. Why is he doing this? He likes to text me if he knows I'm drinking.

There's a boy I'm sort of friends with at church, we have things in common le, similar personality, wicked sense of humour, morals etc. Yet the thing is, literally 1 week he's nice, I'm shy so I don't talk, then he's mean and I'm nice. These are all retaliation to one another. Quite frankly, I'm getting p*ssed off. I am attracted to him, and I'd like to think it is mutual. This occurs every week. I just want it to end, yet I'd still have feelings towards him. What should I do?