I'm a girl so it's safe to say I know something about what it takes for us girls to like a guy. This question has been asked quite a few times so it's time to set things straight. Before writing down the tips, I just wanna say that every girl is different and not everything will work for every single girl. Afterall, you can't force anyone to like you, sometimes it's just not going to happen. But here are some general tips to help boost your chances:
Always greet her.
A simple ''Hey!'' is a great way to get her to notice you. Always be nice and say hello even if you don't know her that well yet. Even better if you can also smile at her when greeting her. If you do this, the girl will probably think that you're happy to see her, and everyone likes it when someone is happy to see them. Even if you're extremely shy, always greet her anyways, what's the worst thing that can happen? Literally nothing bad can come out of this. Best case scenario - the simple greeting will lead to a conversation and maybe something more.
Make a lot of eye contact.
Eyes are the window to your soul. I feel like sometimes you don't even need words to communicate - eyes can tell a lot more. When you look her in the eyes, just think about everything you like about her, or - if you want to create sexual tension - think sexual thoughts. The eyes will probably transfer your thoughts to a girl. Try to make as much eye contact as possible but don't get creepy - figure out when to stop, how much is too much.
Always find a way to be close to her.
Find ways to be around her as much as possible. If you can, sit next to her. When walking, walk near her. Whenever there's a possibility to be near the girl you like, be near her. This will also help her notice you more.
Smell good.
This is so important! Even if you're not the best looking dude around, it doesn't really matter if you smell heavenly. I don't know about other people, but for me personally, smell is more important than looks. If you smell amazing, it will make you 10 times more attractive, trust me. Make yourself smell so good that the girl will secretly want to bury her face in your clothes.. or body.
Be confident.
I know being confident isn't easy for everyone. In this case - fake it till you make it. Everyone is attracted to confidence, confidence is a big turn on. Even if you don't think you can be confident - just try, try, try. Speak and walk with confidence. If you're already confident - great, just be you. Don't get cocky though.
Compliment her.
It's no secret that everyone likes compliments. Make her feel good about herself. Don't only compliment her looks but also her personality, actions, accomplishments. Don't overdo it though and don't try too hard. Compliment her when it comes naturally. Be genuine about things you say.
Ask questions.
Ask her questions about herself, most people like talking about themselves and it's a great way to find out more about her and her interests. This way you'll probably find some common interests and have more to talk about, she'll also see that you have stuff in common and will be more interested in you. Make sure you listen carefully. If you can remember little things about her, and later bring them up, it will make her happy and appreciative.
Laugh at her jokes.
Even if they're not too funny. The girl will be glad someone likes her sense of humour, that someone gets her and finds her funny. It's a confidence boost.
Make her laugh.
Don't only laugh at her jokes but be a funny lad yourself. We like to be around people who make us laugh. Good sense of humour is so freakin' attractive. If you make her laugh, she will naturally want to spend more time with you.
Make her feel special.
If you only want her - make sure it shows. Don't flirt it 78 other girls, especially when she's around. When you're talking, pay attention only to her and don't think about what else is happening around. It shows that you're truly interested in her and you're not just playin'. Do whatever you can to make the girl feel special.
Be patient.
Don't expect a girl to instantly like you after you do a few things. For most girls, it takes time. It takes time to figure out if we really like a guy. Don't go after her guns blazing! It can be off-putting. Take things slow, you don't wanna rush and ruin anything.
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