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I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm babysitting several teenage boys in the age group 12-16. When I'm babysitting them I do tell them when they have to do their homework. When they have to come inside in the evening after being outside playing with their friends. I tell them when they have to go upstairs and take their baths. And that they have to put on their pyjamas when their through. as a girl i feel thatvthus is unfair as to how these mithers treat their sons.. I mean my mother would never let a guy mybown age baby sit me so why would a mither her sons age disrespect him like this... however i dont mind I'm quite big and strong and the boys I'm babysitting always obey me. I could never bath the 13-16 year old boys ! Some of the 12-13 year olds have undressed themselves and walked naked past me on their way to the bathroom. But seeing a teenage boy's naked little bottom doesn't bother me. The 14 year olds are a little more modest and I seldom see them naked, as they wrap themselves into a towel as they go to the bathroom. Not that I'm standing by too look at them either. The 15-16 year old boys I'm babysitting would probably age 5 years if they exposed themselves naked to me. I have helped some 12-13 year old boys, but nothing special. They manage to bathe themselves fine. One mother asked me to help her 12 year boy in the bathttub, and I did. I washed his hair, his back and his cute little bottom. The rest of him he took care of himself. I do babysit a 15 year old boy that totally needs a full bath from his babysitter. But this boy is sick and can't do it by himself. I take his clothes off, follow him up to the bathtoom and put him in the bathttub. ... we raise our daughters who are 16 to be young women and we raise ourcsons who are 16 to be incompetant babys... ugh I dont even feel like dating inmy age group category... aBECAUSE I DONT DATE BABIES

So first off.. my previous relationship messed me up big time. My ex cheated on me.. this was 4 years ago. I never loved my ex but still.. it hurts.
So i still have some trust issues with guys
I have been with my current boyfriend for over a year
Ever since my ex cheated, i have been insecure about myself
So I've been insecure during my relationship with my current boyfriend
Recently its been worse
Sometimes i would accuse my boyfriend of cheating.. or doing something dodgy behind my back
Last night he messaged me something " this pic is for you babe😚😚😚"
But i didn't see the picture
So i thought he sent it to another girl and accidently messaged me
So i called him straight away and said "who did u send the pic too? Wheres the pic?"
And he said "i sent u already. I sent u the pic first and then messaged u"
And then i said "now i saw the picture... u sent it after u messaged. Did u send it to the wrong girl? Did u send the pic to another girl?"
And he goes "wtf? I only sent it to you. Maybe ur internet is slow thats why the pic didn't go through. The pic was only meant for u"
And then i said "are u sure?"
Then he said "look if you think im cheating on you, just dump me. Simple. I've told u million of times that im not cheating on u and that i wanna be with u only. If i wanted to cheat, i wouldve done it ages ago. Stop being insecure. Just dump me if u dont trust me and think im cheating"
doesn't that mean he doesn't care?
He doesn't care if we broke up?
Was i in the wrong or him?