Search Results: How to get over someone who told you they dont

I've been in a relationship with a guy for 7 months. We hit it off immediately. I dint even want a boyfriend but he just endeared himself to me, so i accepted. We spent 12 hours a day together bc he wanted. Its insane i never spend so much time with people, but i tired to just roll with it. He planned dates and we made love we traveled he talked about marriage and kids and said i was his soul mate.

Then his family came to visit and they wanted him to themselves, they didn't like me I don't know why. They were rude to me, i can't explain it but i could just feel it. Plus, his brother called me an attention whore when no one was around. My boyfriend , he didn't see their behavior, so he tried inviting me along but i was so uncomfortable i didn't want to go.

So he blamed me for not trying with his family. Saying i want too much and take up too much of his time. I dont give him freedom.

He's THE ONE WHO DID THE MAJORITY OF PLANNING AND ASKING FOR ME TO BE WITH HIM. I dont understand how he loves me can't get enough of me wants to be with me forever, then his family shows up and in a few days suddenly im clingy and over bearing.

I was vey hurt and insulted but even still i tried to be reasonable. I told him he was treating me very badly but i can forgive him if he mends his way. And as far as needing space, im happy to see him less. It was actually very hard on my schedule to be around him so much. So no problem we can have more space, but that shouldn't change us loving each other. We love each other dont we? He said its too late, i wanted too much he just wants space. Maybe well meet in the future.

Can you love then not love in a day?

I dont understand.

Can he leave but still love me? an you guys help me understand this?

Did his parents poison im against me?

And is he done or does he want to try again in the future?

Should i ask him these questions, or just forget him bc he's really just a big fake and everything was a lie.

Did he use me for attention?

Yesterday, I wanted to leave my boyfriends house becasue I didn't like his attitude and how his temper flared up so quickly. He didn't let me leave no matter how much I tried. He is much bigger than me and really strong. I had a major panic attack trying to let him get off me and started crying my eyes out begging to let me go home. He kept dragging me and hurting me trying to get me back inside the house. He has to wear an arm cast and even tho he had no use of his right arm and shoulder, he picked me up with his left arm all the way back inside. We argued and faught and then we went downstairs to talk it over. He finally let me go but first he pushed me down on the couch chocking my neck, pulled my hair to get me on the floor, and dragged me out of the room into the garage by my foot. His mom came downstairs and pulled us apart and I was screaming because I never expected him to do something like that. This was the first time he ever did something like this ever.. Today, I have bruises everywhere on my body, a bloody lip and a soar neck. He says he really loves me, but why do something like this? I tried to break up with him over Skype (he took my phone) but he has a way of persuading me to stay with him. I DONT want to be with him anymore after this. I told him I don"t want someone who can easily do this, but he started crying and begging me to stay with him and said how sorry he is for everthing and if he ever raises his voice or gets aggressive again, he wants me to leave him. But I told him, if that happens, he will not let me leave! Everyone was right about him from the start. I should have known better. I want to get out of this relationship... Do you think if he does it once, he can do it again? I gave him a second chance... But he's not the same anymore to me and I want to get OUT.