Why do so many guys still fail to understand this?

[animus1988]

just because a girl is dating someone, doesn't mean she is attracted to him.

i dont care if theyve been dating 5 years and post a 1000 pictures toghther making out/spending time together, IT OFTEN doesn't mean she is attracted to him. I can't even begin to tell you how many times I've seen girls dating guys clearly 1-2 points below them and the one commonality in just about all these relationships is a lack of respect for the boyfriend. ITS EXTREMELY EASY to flirt with the girls right in front of the boyfriend when you're better looking. WOMEN ARE RECEPTIVE SOMETIMES MORE RECEPTIVE THAN WHEN THEY ARE SINGLE!! there are tons of women out there who will rant about looks/physical attraction not being important, blah blah and date a guy 2 points below her and treat him like a bitch.

id go as far as to say about 50% of relationships that involve women dating men 1-2 below them, they are doing so because they like the power/ NOT because they are attracted.

tons of women stay in relationships like this for 2 reasons:
they genuinlly get off mentally to the adoration (dont confuse this with sexual adoration)
they enjoy the mental control/power they have over these men

most of these women are the ones who cheat and would gladly turn their boyfriends into cuckolds in a SECOND as soon as nick bateman or some other MM starting hitting on them.

on the other hand there's a fair share of women who remain incel becuase they want to be fully dominated by a slayer 2 points above them and DONT want the control and certainly dont care about the adoration.

im tired of seeing these threads. "b b b bb ut i see all these ugly guys dating girls 2 points above them" next time you're out and about wondering how all these dudes are scoring cute girls out of their league, realize that most of the time the relationship isn't real and based on power and control.

[wassup_homie]

This is stupid. I have had crushes on ugly guys, because they were hella funny, confident and didn't give a shit about what others think. Thats attractive, if a guy tried to control me id squeeze his balls so hard until he gets knocked out, then leave and never speak to him again. Id do the same to girls, if a girl tries to be a controlling bitch id beat the living crap out of her (im a Queenslander lmao) most ugly guys try to hard. we dont want a try hard, unless he's hot. if he ain't all that then what we really want is a down to earth bloke.

[animus1988]

the problem is your brain tricks you into thinking someone has a good personality based on their face and appearance. if a ugly guy or fat girl tries to hard they are annoying and unattractive. if a handsome guy or hot girl tries to hard they are very attractive. when you're good looking you have a halo over your head and get away with just about anything.

[wassup_homie]

Nope, if an attractive guy doesn't seem to like me then i dont like him back. I've met genuinly ugly and fat guys I've found attractive, they weren't my type in any way (im into black guys) but they were down to earth blokes who didn't complain 24/7 about how they are ugly and girls hate them, like most guys on this website. your just an ugly cunt with a very cunty personality, thats why your bitching about girls not liking you here.

[wassup_homie]

also, what if the girl was really pretty but blind? i know a really beautiful girl thats blind, do u thnk she cares about looks, or someone who will treat her well and make her laugh?

[relaxrelax]

woah calm down people lol

[dwiller943]

Or some of us settle for the wrong ones, because we can only get the wrong ones.

[Anonymous]

Animus 10/10
Aesthetics 10/10(no homo)
Advice 20/10

This brah knows the reality!!! Anyone deny is blinding themselves to the reality with there ideas and social programming.

I've experienced first hand how accurate this is. From both sides. Being the loser who dates a girl more attractive and being the more aesthetic mate who has the control.

Good advice bro👏!!!

[DrTruth]

Heard the term dinner whore? Some women will date men for free food, gas money, and pay her rent. After the dinner date and a kiss good night, she'll drive back to her lover to bang at no cost. Alpha fucks. Beta bucks.

[wassup_homie]

that sounds very rare, never heard of any girl doing that

[animus1988]

@wassup_homie its called gold digger. no one says dinner whore that guy just made that shit up now lol

[wassup_homie]

still, havnt met many or even one. only whores i know sleep with broke af guys (bogans usually)

[DrTruth]

@animus1988

dinner whore
A girl who is exclusively after a free meal or an expensive gift. She actively seeks out dates with well-off men who will wine and dine her at upscale restaurants. She is usually physically attractive enough to make the man fall for her feminine wiles. She will rarely have sex with these men, until they spend a certain number of dollars on her. Nobody knows exactly what that number is, so the man keeps spending and spending, while the dinner whore keeps living it up.
As a mere graduate student living on a stipend, it is impossible to find a date in New York, as it is saturated with dinner whores.

Source: www.urbandictionary.com/define.php

[wassup_homie]

i know what u meant, but i mean i never met one

[DrTruth]

@wassup_homie Because you don't date girls in big cities.

[wassup_homie]

i dont date girls at all, im straight... maybe u should come to queensland and date our girls, the only way you'll get used by a girl is if u a bogan

[NearlyNapping]

Bullshit. I think it's a case of seeing what you want to see. I think it's a case of focusing on a select group and assuming it's representative.

Besides, what difference does it make? You are advocating flirting and messing with women who are taken. Your rant and language makes you sound like a dickhead.

[animus1988]

i could say the same about your perspective. the difference is im basing my theories on what I've seen and experienced as a good looking male i have noticed this theory (looks law) take place on more occasions than not. also this is not a "select group" these are random situations and people i am basing this on by the way.

yes you bet your ass i am advocating it. just becuase you are dating someone you dont have the rights to them or own them. if your girlfriend flirts back with a guy behind your back blame her not the guy. the problem is, like most white knights on here you are an idealist. you see situations based on how you think it should be rather how than how things usually play out.

your naivety and lack of insight makes you sound like an inexperienced virgin who has been cheated on.

[animus1988]

you are a 45 year old white knight who can't even defend himself online and tells others to "fuck off" like a whiny 14yo old girl when he loses an argument. you are pathetic.

[NearlyNapping]

I can (and do) defend my views better than just about anyone else on this site. I just don't waste my time arguing with idiots.

[animus1988]

I have a hard time believing you could defend yourself against a cat let alone another person. you are a 45 year old white knight with no back bone and little life experience. You failed to defend your POV here because you have no argument and not very bright. whatever helps you sleep at night tho

[relaxrelax]

i understand what you are saying
and i believe you to an extent

but its not men
its women they think there better then us
cause they believe its based on looks
when in reality we are actually better than them

the difference is we actually care about them
and its actually better that way cause if we didn't care about them they would be FUCKED

[relaxrelax]

look im not saying this is all girls
but there's a group that fits this category

[Dragons_Den]

listen. dude. what ur saying is true for you but not true for most if not everyone here.

more importantly, why would you want filthy seconds from 1-2 points below the girl

[animus1988]

some mans flithy seconds is another mans future wife

[Dragons_Den]

well, at least the other thread was funny

[BiscuitesSwag]

Relationships are so much more than looks... 😒

[animus1988]

yea but looks comes first before anything else starts to matter.

no one wants to give the other person a chance if they aren't attracted physically

[BiscuitesSwag]

How do you know? Have you talked to everyone on this planet?
Also, feelings can form from friendships, when you know what the other person is like.

[animus1988]

im saying for the overwhelming majority of people obviously not everybody LOL

[BiscuitesSwag]

That's also too big of a generalization. Some people, like 10%, yeah, a whopping 70% can't be.