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Search Results: approaching girls in a bar
If guys regularly approach me, does that mean I am good looking?
Not trying to brag. I had anorexia and am quite body dysmorphic. I eat normally now, but I still can't trust my mirror at all. Some days my reflection looks gorgeous, other days I only see ugliness. Is it possible to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, How do you feel when you shoot down a guy?
Girls, when a guy approaches you and you're group, and lets say you really do want a guy for some reason ( like a boyfriend, etc..), but you successfully shoot him down because he doesn't meet your criteria, how do you...
Are women’s standards too high?
Generally speaking, women are more sexually desirable than men. More men chase after women than women chasing after men. So naturally, women have higher standards than men. One problem right now with women is that...
jer94lobo
Xper 4 Age: 32 Place to meet girls?
I used to see a lot of girls while i was in college because the atmosphere made it easy to meet them. Now I've graduated and having less luck running into attractive women i was wondering where you guys go out to meet...
Anonymous
(30-35) Has anyone else experience this?
I tend to experience very strong reactions from people. Either they love me or hate me. This has happened pretty much since i was a child. I was bullied a lot by girls in high school. At least they tried too but i never...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you rather be approached in bars or stores, public, etc?
It seems like with the amount of girls getting mislead itd be more safer to ask a girl out in a store rather then a bar lol.
ShiningWalwus
Xper 7 Age: 34 How unfair is this? This is the most unjust thing that has happened to me?
I went to this public place at night and there was a bar nearby. Keep reading and you'll read about the most unfair, injustice that has happened to me. A drunk guy with his friend walked out of the bar. There were...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do gay guys and lesbians find me attractive but straight guys don't?
Why is that? I dress feminine, have long hair, wear nice make-up that looks natural. I don't act masculine, I'm proud of my femininity but I'm not a feminist by any means. Whenever I'm out and about gay guys smile and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, could you explain/reason why this guy is always giving me the deer in headlights stare?
I feel the need to give details. This guy drunkenly approaches at the bar saying I’m the prettiest girls he’s ever seen, compliments me nonstop (yea yea..). I’ve never seen him around, but later, he told me he sees me...
Majp6
Xper 4 Age: 30 Is its every guys intention to get a one night stand when approaching a girl in a bar or night club?
I've been going out a lot lately to clubs and bars and I keep getting approached by some pretty decent men and I'm starting to think maybe I should give them more of a chance. I won't be a rude bitch and won't tell them...
Alice2398
Guru Age: 28 Suggestions on my communication?
Ight guys I need some pointers. I've had a couple gf's before so I'm not clueless but still a little inexperienced. I used to exclusively date on tinder but I am noticing that women are getting way more difficult to meet...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to cope with being turned down?
I know this sounds very immature but I was rejected by someone yesterday and it got me really bad. I know people get rejected all the time and this wasn't the first time for me either, which is why I can't understand why...
Anonymous
(36-45) Where do you do most of your approaching (or get approached most often)?
Just curious where y'all (guys or girls) are approaching potential dates or where you get approached most often. Like, is this only happening in bars on a weekend night? Is that where I need to hang out more? lol
Anonymous
(30-35) 16, Homeschooled, what places can I go to meet girls?
So I'm a 16 year old homeschooled guy looking for love. The real question is where can I go talk to others without looking like a creep? If I try to approach someone at the mall they would be wondering why am I talking to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do guys even approach girls anymore?
just curious about the dating culture we're in right now... do guys even approach girls anymore? or do they wait for girls to approach them? and where? like in bars, coffee shops, other public places... or do guys go...
Anonymous
(30-35) Short girls: how do you approach guys at clubs?
I go to bars and clubs these days to meet new people. Problem is, nobody approaches me and I am a bit shy to approach guys. How should I approach guys? I am a bit short (5'2") and I belive this puts off some guys however,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, if any guy approaches you at a bar what are the odds that you will spend time talking with him?
And guys what experiences have you had when you approached girls
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 Guys, how do I get ready to go out and approach a bunch of women?
I was thinking I should go to the local Marshall’s (name brand clothes for cheap type store) building a special “going out” outfit. Then I’ll just go to a bar or 2 or whatever is nearby where I live, and just go hit on...
Anonymous
(36-45) Gender Equality or Hypocrisy? Part 1
So, I have been wanting to write this myTake for along time. I joined this site for research as I have joined many other sites and done interviews with several men of different race and culture. I also personally dated a...
Lish89
Xper 5 Age: 36 I Really do Believe in Love at First Sight
I had to write this anonymous because I have to get this off of my chest, but at the same time, I don't want my account to be DM'd to death on. I've never admitted this to anyone in my life, so I figured I would write...
Anonymous
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