Search Results: being picky with guys

Sluts Vs. Studs

I'll make this as quick as I can. Women are not "sluts" and men are not "studs". Promiscuity should not applauded or shamed. Guys say "men are studs because we have to put in the work to get laid while women only have to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Dating

Is it judgmental to not like someone who just scrolls through social media all day?

I have a guy that I have been talking to for just over a year and he has an okay job and he's very nice to me but when we aren't together all he does is lay on his bed and scroll through facebook. He is pretty healthy,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How to know WHEN to end a relationship?

My boyfriend is very sweet and caring. We've been together for about 3 months now but something's just off. Sometimes he just doesn't show he cares. Like he's all talk- says he likes me, even dropped the "love you" like 3...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why is it so easy for young women to find boyfriends?

It seems like women, when they are young, have it so easy. They almost never go for long periods, that is years, being single. When they break up with their boyfriend it doesn't take them long to find another. The only...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What should I do different?

girlwithnoname12

Xper 4 Age: 29

So, I just started working this new job and there is this guy I think is pretty dope. He's cute, funny and kinda weird like me. We get along and talk but I know that he just sees me as

So, I just started working this new job and there is this guy I think is pretty dope. He's cute, funny and kinda weird like me. We get along and talk but I know that he just sees me as a friend. I know that I'm not his type because honestly I'm not anyone's type. I don't really have any ugly features but I'm not pretty. I mean I've tried to wear a little make up now and then but it never really makes a difference in the way I look. And in order for me to actually have any results that I might actually like I'd have to basically change my whole appearance. Which is not something I want to do. When someone steps to me I want them to do it because they see me as I am. I don't wear make up mostly because I'm hella lazy (I can't do a wing tip to save my life) I don't wanna go through all that shit that I be seeing girls go through with all the concealer, foundation eye liner and whatever else they be using, but also because I don't wanna hide or change myself to be with someone. Like I said I've realized that I'm not really anyone's type. And what I mean by that is that I've always been the best friend thats a girl and the people that do become interested in me are just plain weirdos. Some would say that I'm being picky but I don't think I am. Which brings me back to the guy I work with. I've always been attracted to guys are sort of out my league. Well muscled and tall and all that jazz. Imagine that with a small chubby girl with small eyes and a wide nose and u would say bad combo too. A lot of people would say I'm being too hard in myself but I'm just being a realist and speaking from experience. Men tend to look in the other direction when it come to me, and i don't know why. because I've seen women who are fatter than me or even uglier than me who significant others. So why is it so hard for me to want to be with someone and for them to want to be with me in return. Perhaps my standards are too high I don't know. Anyway my question is what do u guys think I should do about the work cutie?

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Relationships

Why many mid age men who are still single dont pursue serious relationships?

Also why men in such age group who still are single are also more sexual than some younger men? Does this has to do with men nature, biology or what? Most women under the same category think differently than men. I...

Anonymous

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Dating

Do you think people are too picky these days?

I have a few friends both male and female who are always complaining about being single or not being able to get laid. I would say they are all average looking, not super ugly but not supermodels either. But when I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why would a beautiful woman is always single?

This is the usual question that many pretty or pretty average women always get. "How come are you single and you are very pretty? I mean this is like saying that only pretty women can date or have boyfriend. I know...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Is there any difference between winning a plain girl vs an attractive one?

I've found that in general, men and women do not "fall in love" together but rather one of the two will try to pursue or attract the other with a relationship in mind (or sex, if you're that kind of person). Furthermore,...

TheBestUsername

Xper 6 Age: 29

I've found that in general, men and women do not "fall in love" together but rather one of the two will try to pursue or attract the other with a relationship in mind (or sex, if

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Would this be a turn off for guys?

So I recently acquired a makeout buddy. I guess you could call is friends with benefits except we aren’t sleeping together just strictly making out. This is while I’m looking for a relationship with actual commitment....

hannahlyne7

Xper 3 Age: 29

Dating

Seems near impossible for an honest guy to find a woman now and days. 18 and older?

I've only been out of a longterm relationship for about 2 months. Before that, finding a girl was pretty easy. It seems as if with the addition of social media, women can get the attention they crave with a swipe of the...

Anonymous

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Thoughts on men being picky with women is bad and women picky with men is just empowerment?

If a man want a thin good looking woman who can look after him he gets called sexist and his standards are to high but if a woman say I want a rich guy who is handsome and has a big home and a expensive car her standards...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Why am I always second best?

OK hear me out. I'm almost 18, I've had I think one serious relationship when I was 15 and since then I've kinda missed having a boyfriend. Me: I'm real academic, I do 5 A level and study hard but that doesn't mean...

ethusa

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

Why am I always the other woman/second best?

ethusa

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

Single Girl Rant: Feeling Hopeless That You Will Never Find "the One"? Ladies, You Are Not Alone.

Before anyone takes the initiative to chew my head off, I am aware that there is no such thing as "the one". When I refer to the one, I am speaking of an individual(s) that you have a special connection with from multiple...

Anonymous

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Education & Career

Is it bad to be turned off by a guy because of poor grammar?

He overuses semicolons and colons, often putting them in places where they don’t belong. Am I being too picky?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Am I being too picky for not wanting to be with someone who isn't funny?

I seeing a guy who is super sweet, he's a very thoughtful and kind man but he's not very funny. I don't want to brush him off over this one thing but I seriously miss playful banter that I used to have with other guys....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I'm freaking out over not getting anywhere with girls?

I'm (21) a pretty introverted guy, really awkward if I don't know someone. That brings me to my biggest problem of not being able to get really anywhere with girls. Really.. not just girls, but almost everyone I cannot...

ProwlerOne

Xper 5 Age: 28

Dating

Is it being picky if I don't feel a chemistry/ connection with a guy that I tell them it's not working out?

As I don't want to waste my time or his if I don't feel an attraction with him. Also I just don't want to be with someone just for the sake of it.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Am I being to picky?

So I've not had the best relationships and have been single a long time! Decided it was time to put myself back on the market and try internet dating!!! Why do men say one thing then do another? Anyway I met one...

Anonymous

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