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My boyfriend cuddled intimately with his female best friend a bit over two months ago. I found this out by seeing a picture his friend had taken of them and posted on snapchat, the app. In the picture, him and the girl were lying on a couch, arms wrapped around one another, facing each other. At first, I was confused and in disbelief. We fought about it, and he said he found it to be alright, and that if I did that with my best guy friend it'd be alright as well, which I disagreed with him on and I told him I'd never do that. We continued to fight for awhile and eventually ended the convo. Later that night, the girl started drama on a status of mine, making false claims and being one-sided the whole time, trying to make me look like a bad person. I was already flustered with her, and I found it ironic that she'd do that that same night. Later I found out my boyfriend had called her and read our conversation to her, so I concluded she had only done that to hurt me more and cause drama with me. People teamed up against me in support of her. Her guy friend sent me threat recordings and made fun of my health conditions. Her other friend told me I was a terrible girlfriend and my boyfriend deserved better, and even doubted me on my religious views. I gave my boyfriend one limitation, to not be with her alone-but he fought for more. So I said fine, I don't want you both alone in any homes where it is private, which was the settled limitation. The girl also posted an instagram post clearly directed towards me with hashtags like #youllneverchangeus #perseverance #yesmaam #fuckyou. There's a whole lot more to this story, but the bottom line is- this has caused people to hate me, my best friend to turn on me, and a loss of love in my relationship. PLEASE HELP ME WITH ANY INSIGHT YOU HAVE. I'd really appreciate it. P. S. It hurts me just to think about her, and how much she has been ruining my relationships with people.

So, I'm a 5'7" tall girl who likes wearing heels. They make me feel feminine and fun.

My boyfriend is 5'10", so when I wear them, I'm sometimes his height but usually a bit taller.

I was out recently and his friend came to talk to us (who's probably about 6') and said, "geez how tall ARE you?" When I told him he just shook his head and my boyfriend laughed and said, "I know man how do you think I feel? I'm only 5'10""

It made me feel awkward and like I shouldn't have been wearing them. I know my boyfriend likes the way I look in them and never says that I should wear them, but I felt like I was making them insecure.

So what do you guys think? Girls: ever been in this situation?

We have been together for a year. When we first got together he was like prince charming, sweet, romantic, gentle, kind and protective of me. I loved it, and couldn't believe it. I had been through a really bad time previous and was surprised that someone cared about me so much. He was very clingy, but I didn't mind too much because he said he loved me and I wasn't going to pass that up. So clingy he just wanted it be us alone and he would refuse to hang out with my friends.

4 weeks in it all started to change. I had lost some of my friends by this point, and only had him.

1) The romance stopped

2) He insults every item of clothing I have, to the point of making me cry. He said I should bin all my coats. (He just said he was joking)

3) He makes fun of everything I did before meeting him. Said my university wasn't as good as his, and my jobs were rubbish. (Said he was only joking again)

4) Insulted my brothers even though he has never met them.

5) He controls everything I do, including what I eat and where I go.

6) He has pictures of all his ex girlfriends on Facebook but refused to have any photos with me.

7) He talks to all of his ex-girlfriends and brings them up in conversations.

8) He made me meet his most recent ex-girlfriend although I said I was not comfortable with it.

9) One of his other ex-girlfriends added me on Facebook, and when I asked him about it, he just dismissed it as nothing.

10) He didn't get me anything for our first Valentine's day just sent me a text.

11) He hates me talking to other guys but its OK for him to make friends with loads of girls and go for drinks with them on their own as 'friends'.

12) He won't ever invite me to go out with his friends as if he is ashamed of me.

13) He is texting people all the time including other girl 'friends' but if I ever text anyone he always asks me who am I texting and not to lie to him.

I know I should already know the answer, but all through this he says he loves me very much, and when I almost broke up with him recently he broke down in tears begging me not to, so I didn't.

What do you think? Does he really love me or is he lying?