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In the age of politically correct at least half the women feel entitled to a personal slave, twice the things men get and no matter how unattractive or bitchy they are they still deserve a hot, succeesful and great guy, then you have SJWs, a bunch of dudes and chicks who pretty much want to tell you who and what to date, what you should find attractive and what you should be doing in the realtionship... a number of men have forgot what being a man is and instead they shame others for having prefernces.

As a guy in his early twenties, and a college student i have come across so many girls in the past 3 years, and a lot have shown interest in me, but the ones that are girlfriend and wife material are few, very few, entitlement, games and manipulation not to mention stringing a bunch of guys along seems to be the norm, normally i would be criticized for daring to have a "preference" , and my way of dealing with it? its simple really :

I literally give no shit what they want, i date who i want when i want, and the rest is nonexistent to me, i dont even care enough to hear what they have to say, to me theyre flies.

what about you? do you let anyone control who you date?

In my opinion, I think it doesn't matter how compatible two people are, feelings need the proper amount of time to develop. I think girls only like being told lovey dovey stuff like that if they have strong feelings for the guy. Otherwise, they find it unattractive. It kills the mystery surrounding the guy and makes her feel like the she doesn't have to chase him, which kills the attraction. Sorta like from that point on he's waiting for her and will always be waiting for her to come around and say it back. Which I think can also cause her to feel pressured to reciprocate and potentially smother her.


If not, can something like this cause a girl to constantly feel like the guy cares more throughout the relationship? Like they're not on the same page and the guy is always more serious about the relationship than she is.

No, we're not. Intelligence and success is always seen as a plus in regards to dating value. Logic tells me that it would not hinder you in dating at all, considering that you don't exceed several standard deviations above average in IQ. At that point, you would experience a lot of trouble in relationships and just communication with others in general.

You're most likely unattractive to men for reasons other than your intelligence and success for the fact that intelligence and success is a desirable trait. This is just a way for you to cope. Self-proclaimed intelligence and success in the context of you attempting to create this false pretense illusion of superiority is unattractive... If you want to correct the issue, then straying away from delusion would be your best solution. That way, you can identify the real issue and not turn people against you by attempting to make them feel inferior to you.

This is just delusion at its finest. You are by no means above men that don't actively pursue you or reject you. They don't pursue you because they don't find you attractive. It has nothing to do with your intelligence or success. Accept that and get the fuck over yourself ladies. You're not that scary.