Search Results: emotionally distant

Should I let him be for a bit?

The guy I’m talking to has been emotionally distant lately. He says he has a lot on his plate and told me not to worry about him. We still left the door open to talk in the future. Does it sound like he just needs time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, She truly loves me but now built her walls high because of her past abusive relationships and her anxiety to protect herself. What do I do?

We went out for a year and a half. The biggest reason she broke up with me because she's scared because of her past repeating. Also, I didn't communicate well but she sees I have changed that now. She is 29, has two kids...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why wouldn’t he reach out to hang out or do something?

So I’m in this complicated relationship with this guy. I love him, he knows that. We can be both very emotionally distant when life gets very stressful. I really am not this cold person, I do crave kisses, cuddles, and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I friendliness here?

Hi, There is a guy I was involved with physically and emotionally until 3 months ago When I said my feelings he says we are just friends Since it has been somehow awkward , like for some times after my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was it a right thing to break up with him?

I've been dating him for 1,5 months only. We have perfect intellectual connection, sex is amazing (he said that it was the best sex in his life!) and I genuinely care for him. Problem was that he's emotionally distant and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I dated a military man for 5 months. I felt like we were getting closer emotionally. He later received orders for a deployment and I was the first to?

Kno. His family, a week later. I had met his family who told me I was his first relationship. About a month after deployment orders he had taken leave from base and we saw eachother on what days we could all seemed...

Materwater

Xper 3 Age: 32

Is he over me or does he just need space?

So I met this guy a few months ago, I wasn’t going into it looking for a relationship but he told me he liked me more than he expected and began to really flirt his way through that friend zone trap. I have never really...

Mickey1998

Xper 3 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Why Would a Girl Become Distant to a Guy Every Time They Make an Emotional Connection?

Every time we connect emotionally and learn things about each other, she becomes more distant, ignores me, etc. Then eventually we become OK.. Then the same things happens... Is she scared?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is she lying to me about why we broke up?

She’s said she was unavailable emotionally after loosing her dad just over a month ago. She’s been distant ever since, which I called her out on. I’m having a really hard time with this seeing how, she said I was a good...

wingman99

Xper 3 Age: 39

Really confused by a guy’s behaviour. Any ideas?

There was a guy at work I had a big crush on. I joined Snap Chat. He said he would show me how it works, added me. Within days we were talking about liking each other. Then chatting got sexual. Within a month we were...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, What are your opinions on what might be going on in her mind?

My ex and i have been on andoff for about 4 years now, first time we split wad because i needed space cause i jnew i wanted to marry thus girl and it freaked me out never thought of marriage before. The second time was...

Revmk

Xper 2 Age: 41

Family & Friends

What's the point of going on if I can't change?

All my life, I've been incredibly socially awkward, and have suffered severe social anxiety since i was a little boy. At 12, i was diagnosed with Aspergers. A form of high functioning autism characterised by social...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How I Look at LDR as a Relationship Building Luxury

I have understood that the general feel here is that LDR's don't work. Some are confused over them or see distance as an end to an existing relationship that, for some reason, has to become long-distant for a period of...

SkyeMind

Xper 6 Age: 52

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Am I emotionally abussive or am I being gaslighted?

I'll try not to write too much but I will be as objective and clear as I can, so here we go: I am a male (22) in a L. D. R relationship with a girl who is two years older than me. At the beginning everything was...

LeeVanDomselaar

Xper 4 Age: 30

Emotionally Unavailable Man? Walk Away or Be Patient?

The guy I was seeing was everything I was looking for. Great looking, made me laugh, proper gentleman. We had fantastic chemistry & I fell for him quickly because he made me believe he was falling for me. I was absolutely...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it bad I am secretly in love with a guy at my work? I do my best to ignore those feelings so he doesn't know?

I would tell him but it's hard for me to do that. My grandpa died 7 months ago. I got out of a 3 year horrific relationship 7 months ago. Both of my parents have sort of added a few more daggers into my heart as well...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Do single girls only want a guy who is emotionally distant and why did they avoid me after I shared?

In a share circle at church recently I said I was lonely at home after my fokes death 3 years ago. Some girls seemed to like my being open and complimented me others avoided me. Is that cause they see me as weak? Do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

You Don’t Need to be Perfect to Find a Partner

For the longest time in my life I thought I had to be perfect to deserve love — specifically romantic love, sex and a relationship. What I see a lot around here and in real life is people who struggle to find partners...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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