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My ex and I broke up 4 months ago and in the mean time he's already met a new girl and has been hanging out with her and stuff. They arnt a official couple or anything and he still doesn't know if he is even going to get in a relationship with her.

Anyways...during that time I've been hanging out with his best friend a lot...who is also one of my best friends too (we were all roommates before). Anyways...we have been flirting a lot and spending time together...ive developed a crush on him now. All my friends say he likes me but I just don't know yet. He has not told me.

While he's been away for work for the past few weeks, he tells me he misses me and that I'm cute and we talk almost everyday. He's back in town now and I don't know what to do...I have not seen him yet...but of course he wants to hang out soon. I feel like this is a bad thing because he is my ex boyfriends best friend...BUT he's also one of my best friends too.

My ex did tell me I can date anyone I want to...and he did move onto another girl about a month after we broke up (we were together for years and engaged too!). That kind of hurt me to see him moving on quickly.

But now I'm over him and I can't stop thinking about the friend...hes so sweet to me.

Should I pursue this or not? Help!

This is a fun poll for guys. Me and my best friend wrote short descr. about the other one. We just wanted to see which type do most guys prefer. So here it goes:

Girl A: She is considered the most beautiful one in the group of friends. She has butt-long dark-brown hair, a bit too skinny body and a pretty face. Her eyes are hazel and she has average height. Wears fashionable clothes and light make up all the time.

She hates studying in general (which sadly reflects on her grades), but enjoys literature. Her hobbies are going out and chatting/playing on Facebook. She is properly articulate and has an incredible writing talent. Loves pop and rock.

She is also VERY stubborn and tends to "blackmail" people emotionally (i.e. silence treatment) until she gets things her way. She falls in love and cares for her boyfriend, but will pursue another romantic interest anytime if she feels that the new crush is more exciting. She does this freely because of the confidence her appearance gives her. She thinks one guy will be enough if she truly falls in love.

She is stubborn, but is also very gentle, kind and loyal to one friend. She likes to present herself as "sexy" or in the "punk" style which she expresses with always "trendy" clothes.

She finds appearance and "bad-boy" attitude most important on a guy.

Girl B: She is an average looking girl. She has slightly bigger nose, then she would desire it and fails to see it compliments her. She is fit and slim (very beautiful body). Average height and bellow-shoulder length light brown hair. Her eyes are very dark (brown). She loves comfortable clothes (jeans, T-Shirt). Will dress up rarely. When going out at night with friends. Hates make up and avoids it if possible. Is called cute by most guys.



She loves school, especially natural sciences and is at the top of her class. Spends a lot of her time studying, aiming for a great college. Her free time is usually spent training martial arts, which she loves so much.

She is very opinionated and wins most debates she engages in. She likes to improve and work hard trough friendly rivalry which is why most guys feel threatened by her. NEVER views herself as weaker or less able because of her gender, which tends to be bad for her health. -_- She hates pointless arguments and is the very opposite of stubborn since it seems like a waste of time and energy to her.



She is not skilled when it comes to taking the initiative in flirting.

Tends to be very shy while expressing her affection towards a guy. Horribly enough she also cowers it up. If he wants to date her, he usually has to be the one to approach her first. She isn't very sociable and doesn't let many people into her world. But those who do get in, will have her loyalty and and friendship for life. Just then, they can meet this protective and laid back person.

She finds cleverness and decisiveness the most attractive thing on a guy. Appearance isn't important while in healthy limits.