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Hello. I like this person's energy and I believe it's a mutual attraction, however, it seems like she isn't exactly ready for a relationship at this time. This idea is reinforced by her close friend who has told me that "she isn't ready, but doesn't want to lose you". There was recently a window of opportunity to ask her out according to her friend, but it was short and I guess her anxiety made her question it and back away.

After getting to know her more, it seems that she has a lot more baggage than I imagined. It doesn't really bother me, but I indirectly confessed to her when we were out with her friend one night, so she knows for sure that I am interested. And, if I am not mistaken, attraction peaks quickly and descends over time.

So, I already kind of confessed to her and continue to compliment her when necessary, but I don't want to risk being friend-zoned if I wait too long. But, theoretically, if I wait a while, she should be more "ready" emotionally because with time emotions (hopefully) heal. Also, I don't think I can play the waiting game either because I, too, will probably move on or grow bitter. Another worry is that her availability will attract other gentlemen who may ask her before me.

So, her heart is already closed which leaves me this challenge. I recognize that she has anxiety and stress, and I do not have all the answers but I don't know, I still want to try. My texting game isn't that strong either, but I try to cheer her on whenever I can.

Ladies, emotionally, do you think I have a chance? How could I support her and not friend-zone myself? I really don't know how your emotions work yet, and maybe I never will. But, can you please offer me some of your insight?

Gentlemen, have you tried or heard of similar stories and how have you/they overcome this challenge?

Thank you.