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So I've been working at a place this summer where I grew up and one of the girls I was working with I've known since I was young but I only began talking to her this year. Some details about her, she is downright gorgeous so I'm very nervous around her, she is 2 years younger than I am, her little brother also works with us and I was asking him and he says he isn't sure if she likes me because she doesn't like to show her emotions that much. She usually laughs at my jokes, and I've caught her checking me out a few times but I'm sure she has too. She knows Im very into her, all of our coworkers do, just because the way I act. Occasionally she will rest her head on my thigh if we are sitting next to each other but it's only happened like 3 times. Sadly my job is over but I do have her number, snapchat, etc. We do not usually text, but we do snapchat often, her usual pics are half of her face which I don't know why because she is beautiful. If I catch her eyes she usually does a huge smile and I just melt. But I've never had a girlfriend and I'm clueless when it comes to this stuff. One of my coworkers asked me if I was going to ask her on a date but I have no idea how to ask a girl on a date. I don't know if she is just being nice because she knows I'm into her or if she likes me, so if you guys could help me out that would be awesome!

I've noticed, at least on here, that a lot of women have little to no idea how men think. They're just plain clueless tbh. Most of them assume that we're difficult people and every time a girl asks a question involving a guy, she expects our answers to be super complex like it is in her mind. But in reality, our answers are the obvious.

Example: Girl asks if a guy who calls her beautiful, enjoys talking to her, is always trying to get her to notice him, asks her if she wants to go out sometime, likes her.

What she expects: "There's so much more that goes into how he feels because blah blah blah His behavior could mean everything and anything etc. etc. etc."
What we tell her: "Yes. He likes you. Why are you making this so difficult for yourself?"

Yes, I know men can be just as clueless with women, but those men usually are just clueless in general. A lot of these women & girls that ask these type of questions are pretty smart with everything else and usually have common sense.

And as for women (on here), I've noticed that they're not as straightforward with guys as we are with girls. They expect us "to just know" if they like us or not. They are always acting self conscious about themselves and asking silly questions like "I have a thigh gap, do guys find that ugly?" even though it's THEM that make things like that such a big deal. They think giving us hints will work when it's been proven time and time again that hints don't work for shit.

I can go on and on but then some of you will accuse me of being some "MRA woman hater who's mad because he doesn't have a girlfriend" or whatever. These are just my observations and my opinion. Am I saying that only women act like this? Hell no!