Search Results: guys sexual fantasies

Is he falling in love?

Three months ago, I met a guy on the internet. We had a coffee together and talked all day. At the end, he kissed me. We spent two weeks hanging with each other, flirting and the sexual tension rising. I am 20, he is 21....

Anonymous

(30-35)

is it illegal to text sexually suggestive material?

I just turned seventeen (last week) and my boyfriend is fifteen (about to turn sixteen, in a month and a half). We sort of text sexual fantasies to each other, I was just wondering if this constitutes as legal or not. No...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

My black boyfriend is constantly praising non-black/Latina women and I'M BLACK. Your thoughts...?

So it's no new news that black men are the most common race of men to uplift and praise the features of women who look the least like them. While they often belittle and bash the features of their own women. Many people...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, what are some fantasies you have about guys that are NOT sexual?

Some that are unrealistic or attainable, but not in the near future. Share with us :D

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

Is what I'm thinking bad?

I'm weak and have a slim bodytype. My fantasy is for a strong, muscular guy to take control. Is this wrong to think? I only think this sexual wise, but relationship wise I want it to be close to equal since equality...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Black men and white women...why does it happen?

Perhaps its thanks to Idris Elba and Denzel Washington, maybe Tyson Beckford. But it seems that the black man's staock is at an al time high. I'm ashamed to say that for years I wouldn't touch a white women just becuase I...

PhilaPenn

Xper 6 Age: 43

A New Perspective On How Guys Can Be Too Nice

Have you ever been told by a girl that you are “too nice”? Did you shake your head in confusion wondering how that was even a problem or how they would prefer you to act? Most guys seem to react this way when told they...

celestialdaeva

Xper 7 Age: 42

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Sister's boyfriend and I are attracted to another; harmless or flirting with disaster?

They've been dating for a few months now. Her boyfriend is pretty awesome- good guy and all. There's one thing, and I don't think I've been reading into things too much. He likes me. I know he is attracted to me, it's...

ShutYourMouth

Xper 5 Age: 34

When I get around him and he gets all touchy feely, those feelings fade, and I become turned OFF.

So, me and this guy did this internship together and we've grown pretty close you can say, but not that close. We have serious sexual chemistry, I can feel it -- and he shows it. He calls me baby, put his hands around...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

You ever tried to set your crush up w a friend and it ended up representing you?

So I've been talking to this guy and we have gotten super close. We always flirt and text. He's always encouraging me and being nice to me. He checks on me and makes sure I am okay. He gives me advice and tells me how any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does he like me or is he just flirty?

This guy from my uni is a real friendly guy and he talks to like everyone. But recently he's been spending all his breaks with me,he fixes my buttons on my clothes for me, gives me long hugs, makes excuses for me to grab...

PrincessBubble

Xper 6 Age: 33

Shopping & Gifts

Where do we go from here?

I have a very close guy friend, who has a girlfriend, and says he wants to marry her. They've been dating for over 3 years, and he and I have been friends for over 2 years. She lives about 3 hours away. We've always hung...

Eawing

Xper 5 Age: 35

All else equal, is a girl who puts out more desirable?

v0nDutch

Xper 5 Age: 39

Assume Girl A & B are twins. They are both stunningly beautiful, not stupid, not bitchy, charming, flirty, fun, etc. They have both dated and had sex with one guy, and they were both

Assume Girl A & B are twins. They are both stunningly beautiful, not stupid, not bitchy, charming, flirty, fun, etc. They have both dated and had sex with one guy, and they were both madly in love, but now they're both over it. Now . . .

Girl A has since coped by not placing much weight on sex. She waited 3 months before having sex in an attempt to weed out guys who just wanted to get in her pants, but she saw how badly that failed. Now, if she's just not interested in a guy, she stops talking to him, and if he doesn't get the point, she spells it out clearly for him. Yet, if she's really interested in and attracted to a guy, she's not afraid to take things sexual if he feels ready and comfortable enough to go there too.

Girl B coped a little differently. After her ex broke her heart, and she got hurt, she realized that 3 months before sex is way too soon. Instead, she now has a firm one year rule. No sex until one year of dating. Even after one year has passed, unless she's convinced that the guy genuinely loves her, cares about her, want to eventually marry her, and would make a great husband and father, she won't feel comfortable or ready to have sex. Plus, sex has to be very special. She's always had a fantasy to have sex for the first time when its freshly snowing. The first snow to hit the ground would be symbolic of their first time being intimate, and it would be a moment they would both remember.

My question is two-fold, because I've been reading and hearing a lot lately from men:

1. Given the choice to start a relationship with both (as in, not just for the sex, but because you would want to be with the girl long-term, not necessarily till death do you part, but not some quick summer fling thing), which one would you prefer?

2. If you prefer one girl over the other (i.e., Girl A over Girl B, or Girl B over Girl A), is the girl you didn't pick pretty much out of the picture because you see her so negatively so as to render her undatable? (i.e., not worth the time or energy to deal with the issues she has with sex, or no way I would ever date someone who was so easy or would have sex so soon).

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Are nerdy girls generally thought to be not attractive?

So I joined quite a few clubs on campus - anime / video game / and some fantasy type writing club. The guys in anime and video game club keep reminding me about " how surprised," they are that I'm in these clubs? At first...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is the mystery part of the attraction guys?

for guys, is it hot if you want a girl and you know her sexual fantasies but you don't get to do them with her even though you want to, is it all the mystery that makes you want her more maybe? what it would be like etc?

rachael19

Xper 7 Age: 35

Is it weird to have a sort of 'knight in shining armour' fantasy?

It's not a sexual fantasy, but I often fatasise about being saved by a man I like, or a boyfriend. Even a male friend. This could be from anything. Is this weird? Do guys ever have this feeling as well? Even the other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My best friend kissed me...

my best friend is a guy by the way. we meet up like every couple of weeks and have a catch up, he knows basically everything about me and vice versa. he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. so yesterday I went to...

Anonymous

(30-35)