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I have a roommate that is generally OK, but has a drinking problem. There are two other people here. She's not violent or anything but has the personaltiy of a 13 year old when drunk. She drinks to escape reality in my opinion. Of course, doesn't admit it. Goes out with her "friend" almost every night, which is a guy, but seems more to me like they are dating. We are friendly but we aren't a couple, nor friends with benefits nor anything else. Quite frankly, I'm debating whether to kick her out or try to help. Would dating her help anything, or should I just be a friend and push her to cut back on the drinking? The thing is she seems to get upset when I don't get strung along with her flirting. I don't know her well enough to know if she's just manipulating. Kicking her out seems callous, but I don't want to get into some shit. I know some guys might be thinking, "free fuck, duh". You don't understand the situation. She is something of a family friend and there would be consequences for doing that.

So there's this one girl who I used to have really strong feelings for, but I'm not sure if it was love. I've never experienced that before, ever. I'm very different when it comes to relationships and feelings, so when I realized how much I liked this girl it freaked me out. We hungout daily, usually by ourselves but sometimes with friends. And we've talked about stuff quite a few times, which if I wasn't so weird about this kind of stuff, I might have been able to do something about it. I've only had 1 girlfriend, but I didn't like her nearly as much as this girl.

Anyways, after a long time I started getting tired of being friends and eveything kinda fell apart after that. I got really annoyed because whenever I'd ask her if she wanted anything more she'd say we're too good of friends now and I should have said something sooner, and I asked her why else and she would never give me a reason. She'd just say I don't know. I know that I got a little needy and proabably annoying, but all I wanted was an answer, like, you're ugly or not my type would have been fine. It would have helped me get over it and move on but no, she never gave me a reason other than we're too good of friends now. It seriously pissed me off because it made me feel like she's just trying to string me along until she needed me. Because she's said she's attracted to me before and we've had some pretty deep conversations, more towards the begginning of our friendship.

I guess it doesn't matter now anyways, because I haven't talked to her if months and she texted me like a month ago asking how I was doing and I pretty much told her we aren't friends anymore, and it ended kinda bad. I blocked her and everything so I couldn't check up on her. And honestly, she wasn't the best anyways.

But for my original question lol, have any of you ever been in a situation like mine? Or loved someone that you've never dated, and knew that you probably never would? Not like a celebrity, but someone that you know?