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So I've been seeing this guy recently that I've been talking for a few months and we seem to have a lot of similarities/things in common. Whenever we would meet up/go on a date we always ended up doing something sexually and this one time he begged to do something and wouldn't take no for an answer but we didn't do anything. ( i have told him how i felt about things and he apologize for doing that and said it won't happen again)

he's new to all of this relationship stuff he's not use to it and things like meeting families/talking about kids or anything far ahead freak him out. He said he wants to take things naturally and not put pressure on it. He said something about what i said before about being lonely and starting over again. He has told his dad and friend about me. he's more of an in person guy.

When were in public he hardly looks at me sometimes (he did say thats what he does is people watch and just look around) and usually looks at me but when were alone he looks at me deeply in the eyes and is very affectionate. In public we do sometimes hold hands and hug , he puts his arm around me etc. We've had a few hiccups and he has anxiety so when we had a situation he was pushing me away.

He also told me he likes me and wants to be fair to me, he said he wants a relationship but his anxiety gets the best of him. (From what i can tell and confirmed with him)

he's a very shy guy and keeps to himself , not a huge fan of pda but when were alone he's not shy and as I've mentioned is very affectionate and looks deeply in my eyes and knows how to turn someone on/make someone feel good.

So I've been talking to this guy for a few months now and he told me something personal that is usually a common question when people ask about someone your usually seeing/talking too. I ended up telling someone about that personal thing because they asked about that common question and if i did say something generic about the question i knew they would keep asking so i told them and then i told him i told that person.

He said he felt betrayal in a way. he's a very private person and its his first experience when it comes to a relationship. Which i understand but it felt like he wasn't getting my side of things which was a little frustrating.

Also I've been talking about the future a lot and about meeting each other family etc. When im happy and excited about things i usually think about those things. He said i need to tone it down a bit because it made him uncomfortable and nervous. He wants to take things slow and make it right and said he could see a future with me. Things he was saying kind of made me feel like shit and it didn't seem like he was understanding how it was normal and i apologized.

He said he doesn't want to give up on this and we were both stress. It sometimes feels like if he talks about the future etc then its okayy but if i do sometimes its like too soon to talk about it.