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A few years ago I used to ask questions on here about my coworker. We no longer work together but he became my closest friend after I quit. I used to show him dirty pics of me & tease him at work. I was never shy about telling him I liked him so he's always known.
He came over to hang out at my house one day last spring. We hadn't seen each other in a while so we watched a movie & caught up. Mind you he showed up around 11 pm lol. After a few hours I sat closer to him & made a move. He totally went with it. We had sex that night he left around 6 am. After that it became a regular thing.
He's a guy that doesn't show much emotion or affection & doesn't like to get close or open up. When we were together alone he would tell me everything in confidence. We would laugh & play around. He hates kissing but he loved kissing me & holding me in his arms. Kissing my neck & forehead too. He made me feel like I was his. He did everything with me he had expressed no interest in. That made me feel so special.
This April I couldn't hold it in anymore & finally told him I honestly like him & that I want to be with him. He said "we can't mess up our friendship". I backed off & didn't see or talk to him until the end of May when he randomly texted me. It took a few days but we've started talking almost daily again & hints at how much he misses me (sex). I want him too but I'm making him wait.
He has apologized a few times but has never expressed any change in his feelings. I'll ask him to come over so we can talk soon. I know it's obvious that he wants the sex back but is there any chance that he may like me? Every time we talk he flirts with me or calls me cute, adorable, etc. I just can't seem to let him go. Sex has definitely made things more complicated. I want to be with him but I hate getting my feelings hurt.

This guy I work with (we met about three weeks ago, let's call him jake) comes across as being loud, confident and will flirt with girls. He acts "normal" around me most times but some moments he would act shy or just weird. Like he would stare at me and get kind of quiet. Sometimes he will pretend I'm not there. This one time I has asked a coworker if he could help me with something. When I asked him to help me, Jake was kind of behind us watching. And my coworker that I asked for help had something of Jakes so he asked him what to do with it and Jake just said to drop it. As Jake said that, he turned around and walked away. He seemed really flustered and annoyed. Another time in mid conversation Jake smiled and looked down, acting all shy. So why do y'all think Jake would act like this. 80 percent of the time he treats me like anyone else and 20 preceding t of the time he treats me weird. Why would a confident guy act like this? What does it mean? Help! Thanks guys

Also, one important thing. There is this other girl we work with and Jake flirts/talks to/hangs around her all the time. Other people have noticed it too. He is not at all shy with her so maybe he just sees her as a friend? He is very confident with her. So I can't tell if he is into her or if he likes me or maybe he just hates me, I don't know. He also seems to give me secretive side glances like he wants to know where I am at all times. I'm stuck! Haha thanks!