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GirlsAskGuys is a website made for people seeking advice and opinions. Those who lack certain knowledge seek to fill that void, while those with experience share what they've learned. At the end of the day, the main goal is to build the ultimate archive of questions and answers pertaining to life between both genders.

At least ideally, that is what it should be.

... But clearly, it isn't.

There are plenty of honest souls who come to seek advice (and are willing to use it), and there are those who take pride in helping others (with genuine concern). But the bulk of why I am asking this question has to do with the Self Righteous, the Sad Saps, and the Trolls.

- The Self Righteous ask questions not because they want advice or that they did anything particularly wrong (in their mind, at least). They want validation. They don't care if 99% of feedback disagrees with their views, they only care about the 1% who kisses their ass and validates their wrong-doing. Why is this bad? Because honest people take time out of their lives to give them the truth, while the Self Righteous individual had no intentions of accepting it in the first place.

-The Sad Sap has real life issues. They need advice more than anybody, and they certainly ask the right questions. While they do acknowledge their problems, solutions are not what they seek. That's right, they don't have any intention of taking advice and springing into action. No, they want your pity. As problematic as their lives may seem, they don't aim to make it better. They aim for a sources of sympathy and false hope, much like a bum drinking his hard liquor.

- The Troll can be many types of people, but they all share common characteristics. Regardless of age, they have the essence of immaturity and disregard. Why? My theory is, they can't find legitimate outlets for leisure, so they troll along anonymously wreaking verbal havoc. Just because they are bored and likely have no social life, their means to cope is to make everyone else miserable. Why? Because while they may be inferior in reality, online they have their moments of superiority. Most users can spot a troll.

People, now is your chance to admit what you really are. The votes are anonymous, your ego is not at stake. Be honest!