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Search Results: fear of rejection
How do I know when to "make a move" and what's appropriate?
Unfortunate but necessary background here, when I was somewhere from 4-6 years old I was sexually abused by an older male family member. Didn't understand how this impacted me until at 26 years old I've never once...
RandyBobandus
Xper 3 Age: 33 
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people fear rejection?
I just see it as nobody is guaranteed a yes 100% of the time, but if you don't try you can't succeed, so what's the big harm in asking? Why do people get all butt-hurt just because they get told no? I have seen many...
Rica_ChicaUSA
Yoda Age: 29 Why are women so rude nowadays when guys try to initiate convo?
I'm not sure why women and girls complain that guys should "be confident" or "grow a set" and when we do something that not many women can do and that's approach a guy and ask him for his number because her fear is...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does size really matter?
This question can be answered by either side cause I know guys and girl are both like this. Does the size of a girl or how much she weighs really matter? I’ve always been insecure about being curvy and my weight and it’s...
Anonymous
(25-29) If We Become Close Friends I Won’t Date You!
I’ve been with a lot of women in my six years of dating and not a single one of them had any close connection to me before meeting them. I meet girls at school, at work or pretty much anywhere you can imagine people...
Dongtai
Yoda Age: 108 Girls only please, be honest with me. Should I start looking elsewhere? Or should I get help?
For the longest time, I've been trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong when it comes to girls. I blamed myself, thinking it's my personality, since I'm a kind person, maybe I'm easy? My kindness is a weakness? Am I a...
Jerry_Lombax
Xper 3 Age: 30 
Help mixed signals? Why doesn't he make a move?
There is one guy who looks at me when i'm not looking for exemple i was wearing sports outfit the other day (yoga pants and t-shirt) and i felt his gaze) then some other times also sneaks a look very quickly, should i...
Theunseensunlight
Xper 2 Age: 30 How to have Success with Women if you're Shy and Insecure
Background: I write this as a formerly shy and insecure guy who had no skill or confidence around girls. If any of this sounds familiar to you, I want to help change your mindset. I honestly believe that if you take on...
Anonymous
(30-35) I have a crush on my client?
I met him a couple of weeks ago and I meet a lot of new people as I have been a business owner for two years so far. Most times when I meet people, it's very standard and I get the job done but of course it's a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I admit to my friends with benefits that I like him?
Not sure if this belongs here. I've been having sex with my friend for a few months now. With time I developed feelings. It's not like I feel deep love for him, but I want to be around him and cuddle with him and such....
hal99
Xper 4 Age: 31 How do you let someone know you're not interested, before they ask you out, without being rude or presumptive?
In this case, I'm referring to instances in which the guy is clearly interested, but hasn't asked the girl out yet, usually due to some sort of fear of rejection. I seem to have this problem all the time. It's...
weasley8
Yoda Age: 27 Will a white guy ever go for a Latina?
I’m a Latina and I honestly like any guy. No matter the race but majority of the guys I’ve liked are all white. I always had an attraction for white guys. I’ve never received the mutual feelings and I’ve always been...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
cristinad
Xper 4 Age: 28 Girls, what means when she does that, and do you do the same?
I like a girl from school and we text sometimes, but every time I walk next to her and she knows it is me she doesn't make eye contact or even pretends i'm not there like turning her head, avoiding eye contact etc. I...
richardconstantino
Xper 3 Age: 29 What Did He Mean By This? Should I Tell Him How I Feel?
I’m stuck between letting things be or going after something if you want it. Recently my ex has come back into my life. We were on the phone a couple days ago and talking about me having a boyfriend (I don’t actually, it...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it normal to only go for unattractive boys out of fear of rejection?
I pursued a boy I genuinely was attracted to twice, the first was a player who messed with my feelings and wanted one thing the second one complimented me to my friend but said he isn’t interested and i guess it made me...
anonbrunette99
Yoda Age: 26 If a shy, introvert guy approaches a particular girl to initiate conversation, does it mean he really likes her?
As I know that it's stressful for guys to approach girls especially guys who doesn't talk much, introvert due to the fear of rejection. Does it mean that if those guys who are shy, quiet & introvert approach a girl to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Just a question about dating?
How can you find that special someone when dealing with the fear of rejection, anxiety and low self-esteem? I genuinely would like to know and please be nice as I know how pathetic I sound.
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I get girls to know that I'm not weird or desperate? I'm just bad at the whole talking/flirting stuff?
I am an introvert, but I do like to meet new people. I can be a bit too passive sometimes and I lack social skills. I don't get angry easily I am not a pushover or anything I am just chilled I won't react on little...
Anonymous
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