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im not the kind of person who will date someone or even flirt, string along or initiate convos if i do not like them in that way. i would be honest and tell them like it is in a nice way. so thats the other 2nd thing i wanted to say. there were few guys that i was friends with they ended up having feelings for me, i didn't feel the same way and i know how it feels, its torture. we all wish we found a mutual love. one guy friend im still friends with him and talk to him sometimes but i dont hang out with him anymore because he kept pushing to date me, even asked me to get a condo with him lol, i didn't even date him, it was akward. so if i do hang with him it has to be with a girlfriend of mine. But there was this one guy, i didn't get a good feeling about him at all. he was literally OBSESSED with me. so this guy, kept forcing me to talk to him, and to date him, wants to see whats going on in my life if im dating anyone. this has been going on for like 8 years, so its been very long time and i put up with it for so long. the first 3/4 years i would always respond to him and talk out of respect and not to be mean, during that time he would try to say he likes me etc, gets very jealous when im with other guys and interrupts when im with them, he was creepy because he never smiles really, he looks serious, just one time he threatened to slap me when we were in highschool i guess as a joke but it was so random, he was showing me and lifting his back hand and said ill slap you so hard you will be holding your face for so long. i was so mad i told him i dare you to hit me n see what happens. he is bigger than me. i told him so many times, in a nice way i dont like him like that and how it sucks when people dont feel same way as you do, i told him im going through that too. he knew exactly he never has a chance with me, still he kept pursuing me, forcing me, getting so angry when i dont respond back. so anyways, this year i changed finally completely on him.

My boyfriend has been consistently obsessing over this one girl. A female friend who he'd been seeing for ages without ever telling me of her. We've been dating 3 years and I think it's odd for a guy to simply meet with a girl you don't know behind your girlfriends back. I just recently found out he'd been searching for her every single day on Facebook and I was really hurt and upset. Why would you search for someone if they're not in your thoughts?
It's not the first time I've felt uncomfortable with how he is over her so I suggested a break from each other. He says he only wants me and no one else but this is his first relationship. Everything else is perfect and I adore him but I feel like I can't trust him. He's always secretive about her and always gets a guilty look and denies everything even when I know he's lying.
But now I'm feeling guilty over arguing with him and suggesting a break. It's our anniversary tomorrow and all I want to do is see him but I don't think it'd be a good idea.
Do you think I'm over reacting or fully justified in what I've done?

My boyfriend and I started dating in high school and are going into out second year of college now. There's this girl at his school who is so pretty and extremely nice, basically perfect. His school is pretty small so everyone knows everyone and all the guys obsess over her because she doesn't hook up with anyone and is "hard to get". Well she and my boyfriend have been snapchatting a lot and it's back and forth for hours sometimes. He claims they're just friends and I trust that he won't cheat on me but I'm scared she's taking it a different way and actually has feelings for him. He mostly just sends funny faces but she gets like personal about her like and He tries to hide it sometimes from me but anytime I look over as he's texting or taking a picture, it's to her. I just don't like this feeling. I'm kinda jealous that she's getting so much attention from him, I feel like when you're in a relationship you should give another girl more attention than your own girlfriend. it's not like that all the time but sometimes it is and I don't like it. I'm not sure what to do about this, I'm scared for when August rolls around and he goes back to school. what if she tries to make a move? I'm scared to talk to him about it because I do trust him and he can have friends that are girls.. I just don't like how close they are.. it seems a little to intimate of a friendship for a guy with a girlfriend. Guys, is this normal? Should I be nervous? what should I do?