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So, i made my crush a drawing of him and i really wanna give it to him without having it to look weird.
he's m (15) and im f (14). He doesn't know me exactly, we just cross our ways in our bus we both take, and also he's on the school i go to. My friend (that i am usually with in the bus) told him her name without him asking, for no actual reasons, as she's always a bit crazy. And yes, she really is:
As i showed her the drawing she said i should give it to him, but i was too shy to do that as i feared him thinking i am weird as we dont know that well, and then the bad happened?:
She basically told him that 'her friend' drew him a gift. He looked confused, looking at her weirdly. He might not know that i am that friend, tho.

So, now i was asking if i should really give it to him though, as i wanna get to know him more. But should i really give him that drawing or should i just attempt to speak to him? I really dont know anymore.
Sorry for any mistakes, English isn't my native language :')
I'd really appreciate help! <3

First of all, I don’t like the term “nice guy” but don’t know another universal term people would get. I guess White Knight works too.. Basically a guy that does favors for a woman in the hopes that she’ll either have sex or a relationship with him (even after she’s already rejected him).

I met this guy through work (I’m at the reception desk and he’s a vendor that visits regularly). He and I got to talking and had a lot in common... we just hit it off. So I thought we could be friends. Pretty soon we were texting back and forth and he eventually asked me out. I told him I wanted to be friends only, because I wasn’t looking for a relationship and didn’t see him in “that way” anyway. It was a vey clear rejection, which he kindly accepted and agreed to be friends.

Well, I still see him twice a week and he always kind of insists on having a conversation, even if I’m busy. I like him and all, but it’s frustrating because he’ll just stand there and talk to me and since I’m in a service role I have to be nice. A few times he’s texted me and when I don’t respond quickly, he’ll apologize for bothering me.

he's given me gifts, including showing up to my work on his day off (which happened to be Valentine’s Day) and giving me pain meds for the headache I told him I had. For Christmas, he gave me a bobble head doll. And a bracelet with lyrics to my favorite song.

But my coworker had a fundraiser and was raising money, so he showed up to donate to her so maybe he’s just a genuinely nice guy and not a “nice guy” (see, that’s why I hate the term, such confusion).

what do you think?

Usually there are two types in a relationship: the one that likes them less, and the one that likes them more.

The one that likes them less: this one is the one that is usually "chased" more. Usually this one is seen as the "girl" in most relationships BUT guys can also be in this position where he likes his partner less than she likes him. The one that likes the less has to put in less effort and usually seems to have more "power" in the relationship, as this one can be like the one always does not care as much about their partner's feelings as their partner cares about their feelings. Usually this one would break some relationship rules and not care that much, because they care more about their feelings and come off as not caring if they hurt their partner's feelings. Some rules they make break include: seeing other people, talking excessively about their ex, and being self centered.
The good thing about this position is that they don't have to put in much effort and the relationship will continue. The worst thing about this position is that they truly deep in their heart, does not care that much for their partner.

The one that likes them more: this one is the one that is usually the "chaser" or the one that has to follow all the rules to try to please their partner, and cares about their partner more than their partner cares for them. They want to make sure they aren't cheating, they are providing ample emotional, psychological and mental support along with gift giving, service, time and compliments. They will usually be happier than their partner because they feel like they are the one getting a "great deal" from the relationship. They don't care too much as long as the partner does not stray or cheat on them (stays faithful/loyal).

Personally I love making cards, presents, origami notes... just tiny little things, along with cute messages. I just love giving these to people, whether in a relationship (without special occasion) or even a best friend. What about you guys and girls, so you like getting stuff like that? Would you find it annoying? Would you appreciate it? Can there be too many tiny gifts? Would it possibly make you feel uncomfortable?
Thanks 💖

So many on here are saying they only get sex for their effort. Do you guys not get to participate in the sentimental gift giving?

If you don’t, do you like it that way or would you rather be given stuff too?

My boyfriend loved getting gifts and i love giving them, so it’s a reciprocated thing. This year it’s a song, some hand blown glass art, and a two headed dinosaur I thought he’d enjoy. I just don’t see why you guys don’t get to enjoy that too.

My boyfriend loves daffodils and things that I make him. I don’t know which would be more suitable for valentines and which for his B-day.

It’s winter. I’m not going to be able to get a bouquet of daffodils for cheap, but I do know a guy who makes hand-blown glass flowers, and he happens to make daffodils.
The other option I was thinking of was making him a heart, by hammering nails onto a wooden block and weaving embroidery thread to make a shape, a heart is just a cute idea and I can do a lot more.
I’m also giving him some other stuff but this is what I can’t decide on.

He wants both (all he knows is that it’s a glass pretty thing or a wooden thing I make) and I just don’t know which to give him on Valentine’s. Which is more romantic and which is a better birthday gift? Pick the one you’d rather get from your girlfriend.