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Dating, Hooking Up, Being in a Relationship and What They Mean

Hey Guys and Girls! It's so complicated to put a title on things as far as dating and relationships go these days. And there are so many "rules"! I was having a conversation with some friends the other day and this topic...

CHARismatic110

Editor Age: 38

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Having "the talk": let's be exclusive. What did you do when they did not want to or you didn't want to?

When you asked for an exclusive relationship and they weren't ready what did you do? If you were asked to be exclusive and weren't ready, what did you say? How did things go after that? If you could have changed...

xHeyUx

Explorer Age: 54

Guys can you give me advice for having the relationship talk with a guy?

I've been seeing him for over a year and a half but we aren't official. He tells me he loves me and thinks about me always. Tonight I am talking to him about being exclusive because its what I want. Do you have any advice...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We got back together and now this is awkward and weird?

We recently broke up 2 days ago about him not having enough time to juggle everything in his life, college, frat, and a gf and we would apparently argue a lot... but he still had feelings for me and his frat guys got into...

Anonymous

(30-35)

In or out? Is she genuine?

So, I met a beautiful woman on a dating site. We've had 3 "dates" and slept together on the 2nd and 3rd. The last time she invited me to spend the night at her house and we cuddled and slept in her bed but we didn't have...

HumbletheGreat

Xper 5 Age: 40

Pleaseeeeeee help - moody guy?

How do I deal with a guy that is moody and is more of a physical person over a verbal person? Dated this guy over summer (nothing exclusive) and then I moved away for school (I come down often) and we continued to talk,...

boysconfuseme1992

Xper 4 Age: 34

So how do I stop him slipping away AND increase the chance of something happening when I return?

I have been seeing my ex for about the last month. After a year of off & on's since our break up we have finally got it right and have been having the most perfect time. He siad he had feelings for me, I for him, I slept...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's his deal? What changed?

I've been seeing this guy non-exclusively for a few months now, lets call him R however recently, I met this other guy, lets call him E. So basically E was having a fundraising thing for his frat and asked me to accompany...

RestlessYouth_

Xper 6 Age: 32

When should we have the "are we exclusive" talk?

I've been seeing a guy for about two months now. We hang out on average about once a week, and we usually only text to figure out plans, with some small talk. We started having sex after date three. Our dates range from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I tell if he is interested in more than sex?

I've been seeing this guy for almost two months now. We've been having sex since date three and we see each other about once a week. In between dates we really only talk to make plans/small talk. Our dates have ranged...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does meeting a guy's father means exclusive?

I've been dating this guy for 2 months now. It has been amazing and although we've only been on 3 dates, each time I feel like we're getting closer and closer. I can see him becoming more comfortable around me too and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I've been dating this guy for 2 months now. It has been amazing and although we've only been on 3 dates, each time I feel like we're getting closer and closer. I can see him becoming

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Girl's Behavior

My ex and I are back together, and it seems great but?

Well, we got back together after a 3-4 month break. We both tried dating, and it took her time to finally open up more to me. We are always having fun, everything is great when were together, we have both improved (better...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is my ex just wanting sex or is there more to it?

My ex and I broke up months ago but ever since our break up we still hang out all the time. He and I also text each other a lot. He has said that he if wanted me fully back then we would be full on back together. I will...

Alexajohns

Xper 4 Age: 34

Hey, people in committed relationships, mind telling me how you got in one?

Like just give me the whole story. How did you meet? How long were you dating before you were exclusive? What made you decide to be with that person? Etc. I feel like I'm surrounded by this hook-up culture where people...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I told him I was waiting for marriage to have sex. Not sure if he'll stick around? (I know it's long but please read)

I've been on 5 wonderful dates with a guy I met online. On our 4th date, it ended at like 3 AM, so he invited me to sleep over but added it was "my choice". I wasn't sure if he was alluding to having sex, so I thought it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do? He wants it to be casual / I really like him and want to be exclusive?

So I've known this guy for a while, we met last year and the sexual tension is crazy. We aren't close friends but we are very friendly whenever we see each other: dining hall, hangouts, etc. Lately we've been running...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think we're dating and exclusive?

So me and... this guy, or my fwb, or my guy, or however you want to call him is seeing each other for about 5 months. I do have feelings for him. We went on dates and we did everything but sex (which we plan on having a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A guy i'm dating slipped up?

A guy I've been dating for 8 months had sex with another woman. I found the evidence. We weren't in a committed relationship or talked about being exclusive but he made it seem like he was only with me. When we are...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)