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So most of the guys I text, I usually discuss political, philisophical, or things that probe them to think with more depth. For example, I asked one guy I was talking to, to tell me about a time he was the loneliest. That ended up opening a door to intimacy that he had never shared with anyone before. Anyways, I've never had a boyfriend and the first one enjoys texting me "scenarios" and expects me to play along. Like, he'll text saying *[His name] is holding [My name's} hand and kisses her on the lips while getting chocolate all over {My name's] face*. I might respond by saying I push him ' away and try to run away and then he'll say he pins me down, etc. It usually goes from an innocent scenario to him making it more graphic. He seems to enjoy those kinds of conversations the most although we'll talk about normal things when we are in person. Since I've never had a boyfriend before, I just wanted to know if this was normal? Like I sometimes get uncomfortable and I've told him before, but he always jokes it off. And the thing that bothers me the most is that when I add something about myself in a texting conversation, like perhaps my interests or passions, he somehow always redirects the conversation to a more scenario like sexual nature. Please tell me this is a normal guy thing?

would you date this guy?

he's 6ft tall, normal to muscular (has a little tummy), brown hair, light blue eyes. He has a job, a car and a small place of his own. Acts like a gentleman/old fashion in terms of holding up doors, paying for dates.. and also takes the initative a lot when to comes to dates (he will ask if you want to meet, but puts i up to you to plan what to do and when)

But looks wise he isn't super good looking, he isn't unattractive, but you wouldn't necessarly catagorize him as hot... He is ofc a nice person, but because of a small language barrier its a bit difficult for both parts to truly express how they feel/mean.

Have you ever dated a guy at least a foot taller than you and well endowed not to mention dominant? I mean like you have to tip toes while he bends to kiss. When you're out he would whisper the filthiest things in your ear to make you blush or put his hand up your dress under the table.

When you have sex he always wants to be in control, he'd pin you down, pull your hair, ravage your neck, breast and the rest of your body like a wild animal. Wants to eat you out all day, everyday. Never wants to let you be on top. Picks you up and make love to you against the wall, on the table, hold you while 69ing while standing up without getting tired. Performing oral on you while he's standing and your legs wrapped around his neck/head while he's holding your ass.

He insists on paying for everything even tho you would like to pay. Buys you gifts, treats you like a princess but fu*ks you like a slut behind closed doors or make love to you gently and passionately. He's serious most of the time and barely laughs. He comes off as a gentleman and very charming to strangers.

Downside: He's extremely jealous, wants to go through your phone, insists on driving you everywhere you need to go, goes to doctors appointments with you whether you want him to come or not. Will pay for your schooling but doesn't want you to work. Can't stand that you have guy friends, times how long you go out for, asks you a million and one questions when you get back and gets really pissed when he can't reach you. Puts hickeys all over your neck and chest so people will know who you 'belong' to and if you don't want him to he gets pissed. Ugh...

Does the pros outweigh the cons? Are these red flags for controlling behavior? Would you stay if he says he will change but still does the same things?