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we dated for 3 years. he said things like we would get married & he knew he could never find anyone like me. i developed depression & anxiety & I began to lose friends. he never liked to be honest with me bc he was afraid to hurt my feelings. he started wanting to see me less often & party w/ friends. he cheated on me, which he swore he would never do, & lied about it & kept it a secret for a month. one time @ a party I was upset & started crying. I saw a text to "Stacy", saying "OMG i am done w/ her I swear to god". him and Stacy liked each other b4 we started dating. they had class 2gether & went 2 lunch to do hw a lot. he admitted to cheating on me w/ "Debra" & broke up w/ me. he said he'd always love me & we'd end up 2gether. I found out he had sex with Stacy a week after breaking up w/ me. but he was still telling me he loved me & wanted 2 b w/ me in the future. we hung out a few times & it was as if I was still his girlfriend. @ his grad party i felt overwhelmed bc Debra and Stacy were there & his family was giving me hugs, saying they missed me & asking if I was ok. this made upset & began to cry & crossed his face off in a pic. b4 going 2 college he said we r done 4 good & I need 2 move on & he didn't care if we ever saw each other again. he came home 4 Christmas & we hung out 5 times after that. now he admitted he was using me for sex and said he had no feelings. he said him and Stacy were still a thing & he has been cheating on her w/ me. Stacy lives in AL and he lives in IL. both in college and they only see each other when she is visiting friends in WI but they text a lot. they only hang out at parties. he told me things w/ her wouldn't b the same as they were with me (meaning not as serious) & he couldnt see himself ending up w/ her. is there any way in the far future he may realize he made a mistake and come back? he used to be a great guy. his mom told me that she thinks one day he will realize he made a mistake by letting me go

I've had a guy friend for almost 2 years now.

i feel like we know and understand each other

In the fall we went to an event together, although I'm in a serious relationship with someone else, it felt like a date. He was really chivalrous and something clicked. I realized I had feelings for my friend. Over the next few days I analyzed our friendship (texts, FB etc.) I noted some signs he MIGHT also have feelings for me. I recalled a time he had sent me a romantic song to listen to, and was a bit anxious for me to listen to it. I told him it was beautiful but did not want to probe him for meaning at the time it was sent, or open any doors, since I was in a serious relationship.

After realizing my feelings, I tried to arrange a meeting to talk to him about them. he was unable to meet but really wanted to know what I needed to talk about. I texted him that I have feelings for him and that it would be fine if he had zero feelings back, I just wanted to be honest and figure things out.

his immediate reply was "lol are you serious?" I confirmed, yes. He then said he'd like to forget the matter came up and have things go back to normal. Later that evening he sent a softer more "don't worry about it, it happens" kind of response.

Since then, we saw each other around college as friends a few times, he always held doors for me etc.

Then, over 2 months from when the text exchange occurred he asked me to meet him to help with some school. By this time I had almost forgotten my feelings. When I met him this time he'd had more than a few drinks and was being affectionate (gave me a big hug, kissed me on the cheek, and put his arm around me) I told him I didn't want him to do anything he'd regret while drinking, he confirmed he wouldn't. He kissed me, slow, long, no tongue and alluded to wanting to go further. We have not talked toomuch since. I tried to ask how long he'd been attracted to me and he 'LOL don't ask that type of question" to that. Any insight?

is there any meaning behind a squeeze hug given by a guy?
for exemple after talking to a girl for like 40 minutes (for the first ime, i mean you just met), and you squeeze hug her.
Thank you in advance :)