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I just got home from work to my boyfriend’s house, got my weed bag out and noticed it was partly unzipped and my grinder was turned the opposite direction. I have a pet peeve about it being turned that way, so I know I didn’t do it. I even turned the bag different ways with it zipped and tried to shift the items around from the outside to see if the grinder could’ve moved on its own and could not (the bag is small, so everything fits tightly inside and doesn’t move). I believe he got into it for whatever reason. Whether just looking, or if he actually smoked some. If he did, there wasn’t much missing. However, it bothers me that he didn’t ask. We’ve had a similar issue years before where he would smoke all of my weed without asking or telling me and I would go to get some and would have none for myself. I’ve made it clear to him that isn’t okay with me to do.

Another reason I suspect he may have is because he mentioned wanting to be able to smoke a bowl before bed, and when I came in there was also a candle lit that wasn’t before.

So, do you think he did it? What should I do to approach him about it? Thanks in advance!

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now, and its definitely been a roller coaster. However, we had met in college and I just recently graduated so he's basically there by himself most of the time because his other close friends have graduated as well. Anyway though, he has been having a tough time with school and the friends I have (only male ones). I have discussed his issue about my male friends with him and he keeps making excuses on why I should not hang out with them or even see them in general. I was going to meet up with a good guy friend from grade school and he even told his mom about it, and both messaged me saying it was "not a good idea, it's not safe." He a very dramatic person in general.

Anyway though, he has been having issues with namely one male friend which we will call Bill. They both haven't met each other yet and Bill does talk negatively about my boyfriend sometimes out of either jealously/spite, or in a joking way. My boyfriend gets upset when I don't stand up for him during those situations but Bill is known to be a jokester, and I don't even realize what was said until afterwards most of the time. Today, Bill had to help me move things out of my mom's house and my boyfriend got upset that he was there even though he was not available to help me to begin with since he is in school. I have told my boyfriend to come on and help, but he never gave me a definite date. He has been upset the whole day after Bill came. He also said that he was stressing out over school which is going to be over in less than a month, and I tried to reassure him that it'll be alright but he still was sad claiming he was tired. I am honestly not sure on what to do or if I'm being a good girlfriend because I have tried to help him in situations like these in the past including that whole male friend thing as well with Bill coming. What do you think i should do?

My boyfriend and I are planning to move in together, a new place for both of us that suits our work commutes.

He makes about three times what I do and has no debt, I have student loans and credit card debt.

He wants to have an account we each put a pre-determined amount into for house expenses (rent, electricity, Netflix, internet etc), and he will pay 66 % of that and me 34%, and we each pay our own bills and entertainment out of what we have left.

I don’t think this is fair, I want us to have one account we put ALL our money into, and we each get an equal amount “allowance” weekly from it, which is more than fair, he says that sucks because he earns so much more and can’t enjoy it. He said that sort of set up is for married couples.

Who is right?