Should I just leave it alone?

[Anonymous]

Last Saturday I had a lot of stuff going on. I just got off work the night before and had a big test the same day. My boyfriend had asked me to come over and at first I said I needed to concentrate but he let me use his office for the whole day and didn’t bother me. I thought it was sweet. I ended up failing the test which means I’m not able to graduate without it so I was in shambles and he seemed as if he could barely be bothered with it. The week prior we had got into a big argument and he showed up at my apartment unannounced to talk and apologize. The following day without asking me what else I had planned he asked me to take one of the dogs because he was wearing his mental nerves thin. I said ok and as I was putting the rest of the dogs stuff in the car. He started crying because it was the dogs first time leaving the house and told me to take care of him. Without thinking I walked down the steps and said I’m always the one taking care of him. I quickly realized my actions but it was too late. His feelings felt disregarded and I haven’t spoken to him in a week. I tried apologizing and when I told him we need to talk, he said we could talk about it when he finished his week. I said I’m ok with taking time but not ok with that. I haven’t heard from him since. Should I just move on at this point?

[Avicenna]

Yes, you should move on

[Iron_Man]

Or you could call him

[Flakey-Flake]

you're all over the place with this story

[Asker]

My boyfriend had a test and I supported him through the ups and downs of it. I took my test and I didn’t feel supported when things were low for me. He asked me to take the dog back to my spot so he can cool off cause the dog was making him mad. He got emotional when the dog was leaving and told me to take care of the dog. I said I always take care of him and walked down the steps but then realized how that could be an emotional moment and went to hug him. He pushed me away and said his feelings felt disregarded. I tried to apologize for days. He said we could talk this Sunday after he came back from duty. I said I’m ok with you taking time to yourself but if this is something that we are going to continue I’m not ok with us letting a week go by. The disagreement prior to this one was really bad. He showed up unannounced to apologize. It seemed as if I was just supposed to take him back. Now I’m starting to feel like since I messed up he’s now running with it.

[Flakey-Flake]

He sounds like a douche

[Anonymous]

You two might not be a good fit

[Anonymous]

Yes, leave it alone.