Should I just leave her alone?

[malcolm90]

OK so this girl came up to my job pretty cute. I got her # told her I would call her. I called her two days later and we had a normal conversation. Next morning she texts me "good morning" I texted her back good morning. I text the next day saying hey and she didn't respond. So I i see her on fb the next day and said "you don't reply to text?" she says I never got it then she asks me to get on skype. We talked for like 4hrs until the next morn. Did the same thing the next day. The day after we talked on the phone for like 3 hrs, she talks about how she wants me to come over her house when I get off work at 1am. So the next day I go to her house after work and where just chilling then she goes in the room and takes her pants off comes out like nothing was wrong. she I start touching her we start kissing and touching then she says she wants to wait because she wants it to be romantic because she really likes me. so I was leaving and she says to come over tomorrow. So today I text her she says about to nap. so I said OK text me when you get up. doesn't text, so after work I text and call no answer then 30 min she later text sorry doing homework (1:30 am) I said its cool and asked if she wants to skype later? she said yes. didn't text or skype me. The last girl I was dating did the same thing, always saying she had homework then found out she was talking to some other guy. So I'm kinda skeptical. What should I do?

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she came out with panites on.

[Equinoxe]

Set boundaries early on, youneed to understand the concept of “walking power”.

Understand that if a women assumes that no matter how poorly she

behaves, you will never leave her (walk away from her), she will con-

tinue to push your boundaries until they collapse.

And as you now know, men without boundaries are very unattractive.

She will leave you at that point.

This is why having solid boundaries is of the utmost importance. You

need to be able to stand your ground and walk away from her if you

must. I promise you that once she knows you are a guy with strong

boundaries (which is what she wants in a guy), she will always respect you, with minimal “testing” on her part.

You cannot show your girlfriend that you are afraid to lose her. With

that said, it’s still perfectly fine (and required) to let her know you

care about her.

In fact, no relationship will last if she thinks she means nothing to you. What I’m saying is that you must not become so invested in her emotionally, that losing her would seem like the end of

the world to you.

She needs to know that without her you would have no problem mov-

ing on with your life. Assume the attitude “I like you, but if we break

up, it’s not the end of the world.”

[TessTowns]

she sounds like she doesn't know what she wants

if a girl likes a guy she will A - always be texting and replying to his texts all the time

B- she will MAKE time to see you.

the best thing you can do is CALLher or next time you see her ASK her what she wants

i don't know why she took her pants off and wants it to be special

let her khow what you want eg relationship for a friend with benefits so she can know what she is getting her self into

with talking to another guy if she isn't dating you the cruel world says she can see othe people too

what is stopping her for keeping her options open untill she knows if she wants to be with yu exclusivly