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They've been married for 4 or 5 years now. I met him 2 years ago. I was 21, he was 31. We were dating for a few months. He didn't tell me he was married. We had sex. I fell in love. Then I once told him in a joke "can't believe such an amazing guy is not married by now" and he told me "I actually am married".

I thought I should never see him again. I tried dating others but I was still in love with him. His wife was in another country half of the time because of work or maybe she didn't want to spend time with him. I don't know. I was basically living with him for some time. With her stuff all around.

He was very possessive about me and he once locked me in his apartment because he didn't want me to meet someone else. When he returned from work, we had a nasty fight and I went out. He told me to return by midnight or he will kick my stuff out. I told him perfect. I'll pick them up in the morning. He left my stuff but also a bunch of gifts at the reception of the building.

He forgot my shampoo and his wife found it when she returned. He sent me messages "WHY DID YOU LEAVE IT THERE, BITCH?"

After that he kept texting me every month again. Asking me to meet again. And saying I was the best girl ever. He says he met a few girls after me but it's not good and he just keeps thinking about me. Even though it's been more than a year since we last saw each other! Every time I tell him that I have a boyfriend, that I don't want to meet, and to stop cheating and to just focus on his wife, and he says he can't.

Should I tell her he is cheating or not?

me and my boyfriend have been together a year or so and tbh things have been edgy and very toxic, only recently we've spoke and had a deep discussion about having more communication and sharing chores of the house and talking about being open about our feelings... After this conversation things have changed for the better. BUT and I mean But... does this really now make up for the times he has called me names, been too possessive, not supportive and lazing about letting me do everything, not letting me go out with friends and being extremely rude and just angry towards me for the past year. (emotional abuse I'd call this.) when we sat down and spoke he could not admit he was wrong easily, it took an hour or so before he understood how shit he's been treating me over the time and his behaviour has somewhat changed for the better; but I'm worried he may fall back into bad habits of taking me for granted or just going back to being lazy and uncooperative. It's hard to explain but our tenancy of the house we are in runs out in October and I'm not sure if I want to sign for another twelve months to live with him or if I should go back to my parents. I know I'm not a saint but I have been faithful and loyal to only him I've been giving him my all and I always have admitted and apologised if I'd done anything out of line myself. It's not till now after communication properly (that's without him sitting in silence and trying to pin guilt or blame on me.) he has changed but has he or will things go back to being the same after I sign another twelve months of my life away?

I been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off. We been going out together since freshman year. We both just graduated but he had to go to summer school. He loves me dearly he tells me often and he's a scorpio and I'm a virgo if that matters but I find myself not wanting to see him or be bothered. I care about him though to make sure he eats and have clean clothes etc... since there's nobody there to help him not even his father takes care of him so I wanna be there for him. But I now see my relationship with him as a task to keep it alive then just enjoying the relationship. I also think I'm starting to care for him as a close friend not a lover. I dont know whether I should break up with him because I'm worried about how he will take it and that I will regret it. I'm also going to college in Michigan but he's not going to college and staying in Chicago. He also is very possessive and jealousy issues. So should I leave him?