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Cutting the back story short, I was in an emotionally draining and somewhat abusive relationship. My ex used to cheat in ways that were mostly verbal ie suggestive texts and pics, just never really physical. But because of him going back to his ex, he forced me to get an abortion using his friends and family. I always tried to give him whatever I could, I worked after I terminated the pregnancy in order to share costs with him. I ended up severely depressed and got hospitalized. He never once visited me.

Fast forward to one and a half year after the abortion, couple months ago, I broke up with him. I got close to a friend who is always there to listen to me, and I liked how he was so kind to me and literally to everyone around us. Somehow I wished that this was my boyfriend. Thereafter, I broke up with my boyfriend as I couldn't get rid of the worsening depression he was causing me and also I wanted someone who is kinder like my friend.

My friend wasn't looking for a r/s as he was always busy working, and somehow we are close and yet I know so well that I'm in the friendzone. To keep our friendship, I rather keep things simple. I mean, I feel like my friend deserves way better. Now my ex knows that there are other guys trying to get me to be their girlfriend, but I'm tired of a r/s. My ex bought me things he never used to get for me. He became so nice overnight that I wasn't sure that this was the same guy with me before. Well.. it might be the sex, but I don't really feel like someone can change permanently? It could be that he felt threatened and hence was trying to win me back. But it's suffocating me, that and other guy's attention to me. I just want to be alone, and I'm almost sure that I don't want my ex to be a potential s/o. Any thoughts on what he's trying to do?

Arthur is 29 years old. He didn't use protection and got a 18 year old girl pregnant. She had the baby even though Arthur wanted an abortion. Arthur went on a business trip and returned back when his baby son, Nelson was two months old. Arthur gave Rachel 500 dollars and a few packs of diapers. Rachel was so overjoyed. Rachel gave Nelson to Arthur and Nelson started sobbing uncontrollably. Arthur rocked Nelson but Nelson kept crying for another two hours. Arthur was so angry he thought of choking Nelson and throwing him across the room. Arthur drew violent pictures to deal with his anger.

When Nelson was two, Arthur and Rachel started to potty training Nelson. Nelson had potty accidents and Arthur started to get extremely angry. One day Nelson started walking around funny and holding himself, Arthur knew Nelson had to use the bathroom. He asked Nelson if he had to go potty. Nelson says no. Arthur asked then why are you holding your private? Nelson felt scared and uttered. oh, I- I'm itchy. Arthur voiently picked up Nelson by his arm and dragged him to the bathroom by his arm. Arthur put Nelson on the toilet and told him if he didn't go potty there would be hell to pay. Nelson was terrified and used the bathroom. Nelson cried and said his arm hurt. Arthur took Nelson to the doctor, the doctor said there's a bruise but it'll heal. Arthur told Nelson not to tell Rachel. When Nelson drew on the walls Arthur was sngry and grabbed Nelson by his arm and dragged him upstairs, this time damaging his arm.

Grace is 18 years old. She's in college to be a nurse. She meets a guy named Darry who barely graduated high school and eventually dropped out of college to work on his startup business. Darry is 21, broke and struggling. Grace liked him and thought it was so cool he was starting a business. They eventually start dating. Grace normally gets birth control shots but forgot about them and ended up pregnant. Grace decided to drop out of college. Her parents were upset, angry and disappointed but Grace really didn't want an abortion. Darry managed to start making 50K a year with his business and grace started blogging. They are 20K in debt from child care expenses.