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"men should lead"
"women should follow"
And women say "i want him to lead"

It all sounds like women want to do nothing themselves and the man does everything and she simply follows him through with it. It's like women don't have a life of their own or don't know what to do when they are bored and hence rely on the man to bring all the fun.

We all know, that most women don't ask men out "because they prefer, that he asks her out" while she sits back doing nothing. Yeah, right. Except of course if he is fat or ugly or unattractive in general. Those guys can go home and watch p o r n.

For example, Chad from highschool, 6'2", athletic dude that was smart and good in sports. He uses you for sex and strings along relationship until he is bored of you and moves on. Chad hits you up 10 years later on social media to go out, he now is less fit (loss all his gains), works a 9-5 job making medium income and has a receding hairline. He wishes to now to offer relationship.

For guys. Good relationship with a girl who kept you at a distance to nothing more than friends and basically use you for your services and free attention. She now is over 35 (loss 90% of her egg and has pregnancy complication associated with AMA), less fit and attractive, more psychological baggage than in her 20's due to her exes/failed attempt at nabbing Chad and may have children from other men.

She messages you out of the blue wanting to hang out with the back of her mind being to latch you into a relationship with her.

I'm bored and want to here some good about humanity. Feel free to share your answer in great detail.

For me it was my first girlfriend who was also my first love. It would be too long if I went into it fully, but basically she was so amazing to me that she made me realize I could be something other than a person who fights all the time. Before meeting her my life was constant fighting between being bullied at school and before high school when I lived in a hood that did not like white people.

I have consistently observed certain kind of up down up pattern in my real life. First I ignored my actions by thinking it as childish but, then I started to observe a certain pattern. My grades were falling and I had difficulty in maintaining consistency. Even if I succeeded to get good marks, it overwhelmed me so much that in upcoming semesters I fail in my exams knowing full well that it is not good to procrastinate or wait till very last moment. I could not make time tables or follow a routine life. I have planned so much to do in winter weekend and even bought subscriptions to home meditation and workouts but still I could not do, nor I could complete my online courses which were due for upcoming month. Only thing I did was to fester about it, get anxious and watch Netflix. When Netflix series gets over i switch to Amazon prime video or Disney plus subscription or watch YouTube videos or those shows that I don't normally watch just to escape the pending work. This behavior increases ten folds before exams. I know the subject, like the subject but could not complete a single page in one day knowing full well that it can impact my grades. I could not maintain my attention long just to talk to people get impatient and roam in my own dream world like a space cadet. I am not able to make friends , connect with new ones or enjoy my vacations peacefully as my mind wanders here and there and everywhere. I planned to explore France and bought a French learning subscription but the results were same , and so was for Tinder to find love this Christmas. I haven't got any matches yet , but I doubt that my relationship will last with my current emotional behavior. I am overreacting , self sabotaging and creating chaos small things for absurd reasons. and getting lost in memories of past and it repeats over and over. My new year resolutions are pending. I am struck in a time loop of repeating mistakes and not able to move forward. I received advices that I am putting in polls

I have consistently observed certain kind of up down up pattern in my real life. First I ignored my actions by thinking as childish but, then i started to observe a certain pattern. My grades were falling and i had difficulty in maintaining consistency. Even if i succed to get good marks, it overwhelmed me so much that in upcoming semesters I fail in my exams knowing full well that it is not good to procrastinate or wait till very last moment. I could not make time tables or follow a routine life. I have planned so much to do in winter weakend and even buyed subscriptions to home meditation and workouts but still i could not do nor i could complete my online courses which were due for upcoming month. Only thing I do is to fester about it, get anxious and watch Netflix. When Netflix series gets over i switch to Amazon prime video or Disney plus subscription or watch YouTube videos or those shows that I donot normally watch just to escape the pending work. This behaviour increases ten folds before exams. I know the subject, like the subject but could not complete a single page in one day knowing full well that it can impact my grades. Even i could not mantain my attention long just to talk to people get impatient and roam in my own dream world like a space cadet. I am not able to make friends , connect with new ones or enjoy my vacations peacefully as my mind wanders here and there and everywhere. I planned to explore France and buyed a French learning subscription but the results were same , and so was for Tinder to find love this Christmas. I haven't got any matches yet , but I doubt that my relationship will last with my current emotional behaviour. I am overreacting , self sabotaging and creating chaos small things for absurd reasons. and getting lost in memories of past and it repeats over and over. My new year resolutions are pending. I am struck in a time loop ➰ of repeating mistakes and not able to move forward. I recieved advices that I put in below.