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Since I don't like makeup and hate dressing like a tramp, it seems that refusing to wear makeup or just wanting dress modest is looked down upon in this society. Everything that is natural for a girl is considered weird, lazy, unkempt, and unhygenic. I don't like changing my hair texture or anything else that changes me. When I go to the mall all natural, just about most of the teens and some younger adults treat me horribly, especially in Forever 21, the cashiers both women and men give me dirty and disgusted looks and refused to look at me. Most of the people in Forever 21 are always rude to me, it doesn't matter what store it is. It also seems racism has not died out. I still continue to see racist comments on the internet and even racist people in person. I went to sprouts and I had on fitness clothes and they weren't trashy, my hair was freshly washed, but I had it twisted and it was very short. I am a very hygienic person and clean, I rarely dress up anywhere, but I see no reason to dress up in regular grocery stores. I passed by this white lady and she clutched her purse when I passed by and she kept moving away from me and then I went near this white person and he quickly got away from me. Even the cashiers at sprouts are rude to me and give me an attitude. I dealt with rude comments online about my appearence and racist comments. I also have acne scars and I feel that's another thing people use against me. Ever since I moved back to California, I have been staring at myself in the mirror all day and everyday and I am obsessing over everything from my skin color, forehead shape, jaw shape, face shape, color of lips, small eyes, and everything else. I wish I never learned racism at such a young age, now I am scared of white people and feel dirty and ugly around them. It also doesn't help what men say about black women. Its very hard for me to continue to wear my natural hair and to not wear makeup with how badly im hurthurtin alll the ignorant commen

My parents still do. I kinda dress like a guy everyday. I'm always wearing jeans, sneakers, gym clothes and t shirts. I'd like to dress more girly and wear more colored clothes but my parents kinda pressured me into dressing more like a boy, I guess it's a good thing to them because my shape is hidden. People always told me I have a really good body shape but based on how I dress I never showed it off and when I do I'm worried about what my parents will think and they watch how I dress. I don't wear dresses, skirts or anything that's typically girly. I have the same dress style as any guy. A guy could literally wear what I do everyday. I had a pair of booty pants. ( pants that lift up your butt) but they disappeared and I could never find them after I bought them. Same goes for a dress of mine. Do you think parents should have the right to control how their kids dress even after 18?