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We've known each other since we were 6 and now we're 16. We've both been in relationships before but with other people. He's my best guy friend, and we talk to each other about almost everything. I've been dealing with a lot of family issues recently and he's been by my side, always making sure I'm okay.

The thing about our relationship that can look odd in the eyes of other people is that we're slightly more physical that other guy-girl best friends. We hug a lot, he puts his arm around me a lot, and some take this as flirting. But that's just how we are with our close friends.

I went over to his place today, we Haven't seen each other for over a week. I had never been to his house before just because his parents make wild assumptions when he brings girls home. We started of talking a bit, and then we started to play games on Xbox. After a bit of that, he said we should watch a movie. During the movie we cuddled but for me that wasn't out of the ordinary at all. Then he slowly started to run his fingers through my hair. He kissed my head a couple of times. We would occasionally laugh at funny parts and when I looked up at him he had a look on his face I had never really seen before. I avoided facing him after that because I didn't want to kiss him if he tried.

When I had to leave he kept holding on to me . After a little bit of laughing and struggling, I broke free but he pulled me down onto him. He put his lips on my neck and I panicked so I quickly got up. He didn't seem to notice.

So what I want to know is, does he think of me as more than a friend or is he just horny? He's never done anything more than hug me before today so I'm quite confused.

Opinions and advice please! Thanks!

I am a very shy college girl & it takes a lot of courage for me to even say hi to guys. Last fall I went to some ball games to cheer on one of my friends. Over a few months I kept seeing a guy that I thought was good looking. One day I got the courage to say hi. We couldn't talk long because he had to do 'clean up' duty after the game. About a week later, there was another game & we chatted then. Both of us grinned huge & he shoved his hands in his pockets & looked at the floor. A few weeks after that he said "hows it going" to me. I was up in the bleachers & looked down at him & grinned. Almost immediately he looked away, grinning huge.

Basketball season ended, a new semester began. We became FB friends & continued chatting on/off. Some days, when I hung out in the cafeteria, we would see each other. We would say hi and/or wave/grin huge. A few times I caught him looking at me when I was chatting with my friends. One time he kept glancing at lot when I was chatting with one of my gfs & her boyfriend.

Another time I was chatting with friends & wasn't "looking" for him & I didn't want to see him because I wanted to give up/forget about him. My gfs & I were chatting at a table & one of em said "Isn't that your guy?" I looked & saw him workin on hw. He was facing us, but I never saw him look at me. I didn't look long tho.

I got the courage to ask him to chill, just to get food or something & talk, not a legit date. But I guess I should ask what is classified as a 'real date'? His response while grinning broadly/shoving his hands in his pockets, thumbs out: "I'm sorry, I don't do much besides baseball & school." (Which is true-he doesn't party unless it's summer & he doesn't watch movies or read or chill with friends much during the school year, so I guess I had it coming)

I didn't talk to him much after the fact because I didn't want to bug him. I went to a few baseball games, but didn't cheer because I am so shy. I FBed him good luck & to hit a homer. He replied "i'll try just for u" First time he was up to bat, he smacked one to center field for a single. Luck or...?

Last week of school came; I was walking toward school. A car pulls around the corner & I look up and it was him! He grinned huge & pointed at me like Gary Bertier does in Remember the Titans right before his car crash. I grinned & waved. That same day, I saw him in the cafeteria..we waved. Two days later, I was in the cafeteria finishing up a final for my computer class. I packed up my stuff & headed out when I saw him chatting with his guy friend. We made eye contact & he leaned in toward his friend. I looked away nervous. I risked a glance back & caught him looking at me, still chatting with his friend.

I would initiate almost all the convos. I'm trying not to chat w him so much...which is easy/hard at the same time. I've looked up "flirting signs" online & found that he falls into a few listed...but he also seems to fall under some that say that he is "uninterested". Any tips?