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I often experience B. I’ll regret not telling someone how I feel and then find out later that they were actually into me.

There was this new student. I never really tried to approach him because i didn't care to plus i wasn't initially attracted. But then we went on this field trip and i hung with him all day. Omg the feelings really started to boil. By the end of the year, I told the cousin of his cousin. Lol big mistake. Next school year, He passes me and says “I Know Something You Dont Know.”! Lol I immediately ran to my friend (the cousin of his cousin) bt she promised she didn't tell him. Lol Lies! One day i sit and talk with Him and he's like “I know you like me.” I was like “who told you, Liz?” And he goes, “yea but dont tell her i told you. so you used to like me huh?” Me freakin out inside, im like “USED TO.” Lmao then he's like “Wait why dont you like me anymore?” Haha i thought it was so cute that he was disappointed that i was possibly over him. Then he goes, “if i kiss you right now, would you start liking me again?” omg i was ecstatic but i turned him down. One, because he was just flirting with an enemy of mine IN MY FACE earlier that day, and Two, because we were in a class that contained me, my female enemy, 6 of my ex-crushes and this one quiet kid.

I’ve also experienced A where i told someone how i felt and ended up regretting it. Ling story short, he was my best friends brother. He flirted and she always told him “YALL ALWAYS SIDE WITH EACHOTHER BECAUSE y'all LIKE EACHOTHER.” And yea he denied it, but not in a mean way. More of a, possibly lying to himself way. Anyways, when i told her to tell him how i felt years later? it resulted in the end of our friendship. Smh.

As for C, I’ve only backed away when it was a best friend telling me his feelings. I mean, Im flattered but if he constantly tries to make me “want” him, then i run. I guess i can see now why I experienced option A with my friend guy.

#FeelFreeToList #StoryTime #FriendZoned

Well he showed me the messages between him and this girl he just met in school. I felt a weird feeling from her so I asked if he could show me the messages. Well he did and although nothing showed he was flirting these lines sort of caught me off guard. This girl was totally fishing for compliments from my boyfriend which he never gave but she basically got him to follow her on Snapchat and she said how she would put him under some character there that she says he looks like and he replied with “I feel so special” then they were sending eachother memes and I think she said how great and funny the ones he was sending were and he replied with “thank you I’m blushing”. Nothing else in the messages showed he was flirting or trying to cheat besides her just bringing up her being “short” constantly and he only teased her about it like once or twice. They also had like a little back and forth banter about how she’s older than him and how he’s taller and so on. He’s cut off contact with her since then bc I told him I didn’t like this girl and how they were talking. He said he totally wasn’t trying to flirt with her and he didn’t think she was trying to flirt either he just thought she was nice and that he met a friend. Could he be lying about him not flirting?