Search Results: online buddies

I don't know how I should read this...?

Met this girl online. We've talked for about 4 months. Went on 2 dates. We text everyday. She told me she loves texting me. We haven't kissed or anything yet (which I'm not rushing to do at all). She knows I like her....

Fuyumiko

Xper 6 Age: 34

Relationships

Am I dropping in the friend zone or not yet?

Hey guys and girls! One of my friends told this one girl about me and she got interested and we started chatting online and also Skype. I know that in the past I have gotten in the Friend zone but that is because I...

ReXXiLLe

Xper 5 Age: 28

Dating

Help decipher these mixed signals?

I met a guy online and we talked for a week and then met. (It seemed like a little less than a date because we paid for our own food and movie tickets separately.) We hit it off and he texted me every day following the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

When a guy avoids you?

I met this guy last year and we got along great. We went on a date and he asked me out on a second one. He subsequently started flaking on me (like he'd text me to go out and then ask to reschedule). I then told him there...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Newly single at 29, how do I avoid dating apps?

I ended a 10 year relationship last year and I don't use any social media whatsoever, not even with friends or family. I guess I maxed out on message boards in 2003 when I met my ex online and all our friends got more and...

Sharkette

Xper 5 Age: 42

Flirting

What are clues that show a guy misses you/ or realizes he wants you?

First, Happy New Year everyone ! So let me 'try' & make this as short and simple as possible. I met this guy "accidently" you can say, he automatically had my phone number because I was selling something online and he...

thisgirlneedsadvise

Xper 3 Age: 32

Society & Politics

Should I dump him or is this normal?

So I've been my boyfriend since May. He used to tell me that he liked me when we were cuddling in bed. Now he doesn't say anything. I know he probably thinks it's assumed since he's still with me and cuddles with me. It's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should average to below average guys bother with dating websites?

I recently joined a dating website and before messaging anyone, I asked some buddies and coworkers what they thought about online dating and their experience with it. Of course I only asked guys and their responses were...

WoIIie

Guru Age: 36

Dating

I don't understand. Is she interested?

This semester in college I started talking to this girl in one of my classes. She seemed interested so I asked for her number. We've been texting everyday for the past few weeks or so. We've also started plating a games...

Kracken

Xper 5 Age: 30

Family & Friends

Please explain this to me.

My friend had me come with her to meet a guy for the first time. She had been speaking to him online and they decided to meet in person. He attends our university and is our age so it wasn't that big of a deal to go. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I message him or wait for him to message me?

I met this guy online, we chatted for like 4 hours or something until early morning on Friday/Saturday - just clicked right away. Then again on Sunday (I messaged him first and kept the convo going towards the end). He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Guys: How would you feel if a lady said this to you?

I've thought about sending him something that says I can take a hint (ignored messages and ignored phone number) and that I'm not really looking for a message buddy, but that I wish him the best. Been talking to a guy I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do you think online dating is less "desperate" than it used to be?

First of all, I'm not a huge fan of it because I have tried it and never met anyone whom I really liked or had a relationship with and I've been catfished a few times where the person didn't look like their pictures. But...

pooper89

Guru Age: 34

Family & Friends

Crush has 'stranger' obsession?

I met this gentleman online a few months ago. We texted everyday for 2 months before we met. We had this great connection where we seemed to care about each others lives and would talk about all the things we were going...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Online (FALSE Advertise) Dating - Kill me

guycurious2012

Xper 5 Age: 39

Ummmm - Help. Via online dating I met a guy who woo'ed me. Flowers, Chocolates, Teddy Bear, Perfume. Then I meet him - he's going bald and quite thin. Not the tanned, muscley,

Ummmm -

Help.

Via online dating I met a guy who woo'ed me. Flowers, Chocolates, Teddy Bear, Perfume.

Then I meet him - he's going bald and quite thin. Not the tanned, muscley, full-head-of-hair younger version of him.

I overlook the physicaly shortcomings because hello I'm human and have them too. He was enigmatic, vivacious, loud, engaging, full of jokes and - drunk.

I stupidly slept with him on the first night after going home alone (he called incessantly and finally I allowed him to come over).

I saw him two weeks later for a booty call after I realized he's not serious about dating. It had been a while for me and I thought oh well I will take it for what it is and leave it at that - but he wanted to 'hang out' afterward. He revealed that his brother is part of a gang in Sydney, shows me photos of 'the new Chopper Reid' - a notorious Sydney criminal who he's friends with. Blasts 'Hed P.E' all while talking about how cool him and his 'gang' are. How they are brutal but, all nice to him so - they're cool. (IDIOT!) in my head I'm thinking um buddy it's only a matter of time before they turn on you. you might have a nice apartment and money now, but they are using you and your 'trucking' business for their own agenda.

So - from being a self-confessed 'mummys boy' to 'gang member facilitator' over the few weeks I knew him, (he owns a warehouse they 'use' as a bikie club)...um. Isn't that false advertising?! And how the hell do people get so good at REELING you in and then droppig you flat with reality?! I REALLy thought he was a good, sound, humble business man! This is so far away from what I expected!

Needless to say - shall never be booty calling him - again. And I've turned off online dating for a while...

maybe it really is better to just be single and wait. so many freaks out there.

Oh! and he bragged about how he and these gangs guys see cop cars from his apartment and smash fruit and random objects on their cars. or throw lemons at peoples heads...he's 28.

Wow.

WOWWWWWW

Kill me now. Seriously. ARGH!

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What does this mean ....

If a guy says to his friends that he is "seeing someone" what does that mean (referring to a girl). Are we dating? Bf/gf, or just F&*@ Buddies? Also, if he just came out of a long term relationship (5 years) and doesn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

POF online dating question

Alright so I just got out of a long relationship with my ex and my buddy told me I should give POF a try. Well I created a profile on Tuesday and didn't begin any conversations now I have 6 chicks that seem overly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

A guy I have slept with 3 times does not call, text, or email me just to talk

Hi guys, this is my first time posting a question here, and I really need your advice. Recently I met this guy online (we are both 45, probably older than most of you here). We had 3 dates in the course of a week, and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

My ex saw me and ran away! Why do I feel so bad?

Tonight I was at a baseball game with my friend. I knew she was there, but I didn't know where she would be sitting, so I just sat in left field like I always do. I was talking to my friend when I looked over and saw my...

Turnerik3493

Xper 5 Age: 36

Family & Friends

Is it my duty to socialize or could my boyfriend help in making me part of the party?

Last night I got endlessly bored at my boyfriend's friend's birthday party. I get along with his friends (all guys) just fine, but it's not like we're great buddies or anything. So I sat there wanting to talk to somebody...

enigmatta

Yoda Age: 38