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I have been seeing this guy and he fits every profile of my dream guy but we don’t communicate as much. We communicate well in terms of understanding each other and respecting each other. But the problem is we’re both extremely introverts we’re always in our head and we don’t actually communicate much verbally but we have amazing chemistry physically. I have complicated feelings for him because we have only went on three dates I feel like it takes time for me to open up and for him. Our fear is that we will bore each other because we stare at each other eyes, cuddle, and be in each other’s presence with our minds racing but we don’t share what’s on our mind. I have difficulty opening up to anyone because I’m a extreme introvert. I started distancing myself from him because he has complicated feelings for me too, like our feelings aren’t developed. He’s an amazing guy, has similar core values, goals in life and understands me well. Do feelings come right away or do people build it? We’re very inexperienced in dating to say the least. But we believe we should focus on one person at a time and right now I got my eyes on him, but I have confused feelings because I haven’t opened up as much as I could. And as for me it’s hard for me to open up because I was in complete isolation growing up, had distance parents, no friends never built that friendly communication with anyone. And now I’m starting and it’s the hardest thing for me now, to speak what I think.

I’m seeing this amazing guy, who is also my dream guy, we have similar core values, similar personalities, understand each other so well, like we’re best friends even though we don’t know each other long feel like the person who is part of me. However, we’re early in the dating stage and we don’t know if we’ll be together, I have hope but I have no expectations from him. But sometimes I think to myself maybe he’ll by my lesson or someone who will break my heart since I’ve never been in love before. I’m probably more naive, trust easily, and forgiving because my heart hasn’t been broken before. Do people find love when their heart hasn’t been broken before? Or do people find true love after their heart has been broken a couple of more times? There’s a saying that you break your heart 7 times then find the true person for you.