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GirlsAskGuys Relationship Panel Questions And Answers.

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Welcome to the first ever GirlsAskGuys Relationship Question and Answers Panel. We have a amazing group of Gaggers here to answer your questions about relationships.

I want to start by thanking everyone who contributed to this especially my co-author @SydneySentinel. So without further adieu, let's get started answering the questions submitted by you with our select panel of Gaggers.

What Three Things Does A "Real Woman" Do?

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@AustinMan

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1) She understands that she needs to accentuate her femininity. I love the girly touches: nails, hair, make up, and full Brazilian wax.

2) She needs to be enthusiastic, a willing and eager partner ready to follow her Dom's lead.

3) She remembers that she needs to communicate with him, away from the sex, in a very calm, direct, and matter of fact manner.

@Wowgirl30q

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1) A real woman never lets her guy leave home hungry or horny. She treats her guy like a king.

2) A real woman is loyal and will stand up to other's for her guy, family, and friends without hesitation or fear.

3) A real woman is kind, nurturing, and loving. She is confident about herself and is able to support herself financially without assistance.

@coachTanthony

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1) Stop dating pussies. If you want a masculine man then you need to let him be just that. No masculine guy is going to want to be around a woman who never let's him take care of her.

2) Have standards. Anyone can go on a bad date but the most successful women kick those guys to the curb when the red flags appear. Don't allow what you don't want in your life to over stay their welcome.

3) Don't be a woman who needs a man....be a woman who a man needs. A real woman shouldn't get excited over text messages and promises. Real women should want a man who makes phone calls and promises.

Whats A Man's Kryptonite?

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@Juxtapose

SEX.....!!!!

@AustinMan

It varies with the man. For me, it's when she's a submissive, a real masochist who's really into erotic pain, and who can't get enough of having my over size cock shoved up her ass.

@Sonorous

Assuming you mean "Kryptonite" as in, something/someone that can make a man more vulnerable to falling deeper in love:

I'd say things that compliment his nature or improve his way of life. Find out his passions & goals, and do things that cater to them. A cool way to start would be to look up the 5 love languages and learn which ones he prefers the most. Then decorate it with the stuff that compliments his personality.

@coachTanthony

Every person has some kind of kryptonite that can adversely affect their life. I think for a man it's rejection. I think this hinders their ability to continue on in the search for what they truly want. Rejection can feel terrible but if used as a tool of feedback you can reverse that fear and use it to your benefit.

Next time you get rejected look at it as a learning opportunity. By doing this it's takes the sting of it being so personal. Hell go out and get rejected on purpose. I have been rejected over a thousand times in my life. I am not saying the more you do it the more you become numb to it but more of I don't know these people so why should I feel offended. I appreciate that I even have this chance to interact at all with them. Mindset is key.

What Makes A Guy Dateable?

@AmandaYVR

Integrity, honesty, a sense of self, the ability to communicate and a kind heart .

@MrOracle

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First and foremost, he needs to be confident in himself and how he interacts with other people, men and women alike. He needs to know his own worth, and even if humble, needs to be ready to defend his worth to others at all times. He doesn’t let others walk all over him, ever.

Second, he needs to either be successful in life or, at the very least, be on a solid path to success AND be working hard and smart at achieving that success. Women want a man with at least some ambition to improve himself and who has motivation to actually do the work and get it done.

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Third, he needs to be able to have time and make time to have a woman in his life. He needs to be in a position to make her a high priority, and not all men are in this position at all times. Sometimes they need to make changes in their life or career to allow this time.

Fourth, he needs to make some effort to be attractive. He needs to groom himself, dress decently, keep his place in a respectable state, and in most situations, have some kind of decent car.

@SydneySentinel

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For me, it has to be more than just attraction. I look for a good personality-- someone who is kind, intelligent, and a good (sometimes distasteful) sense of humor. For it to go past just a first date, I look for a guy who has goals for his life that are on a similar level as my own. It's important for me to find a family man (even before I became a mom) because family is so important.

@Juxtapose

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1) Hygine & cleanliness. Who doesn't love that?

2) A Compatible Sex Drive, personality and the ability to keep their partner interested. Simple right?

3) Being able to at least not be financially dependent on you. A good adult almost always pays their debts and carries their own weight.

4) Honesty & Loyality. These are admirable traits to most people and help reduce unnecessary complications in the relationship.

What Is A Problem With Dating Someone Much Younger ?

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@MzAsh

Dating someone much younger can be fun. It’s when things get serious and you start having to make important decisions that you realize the difference in phases in life and how it can affect the relationship.

@OlderAndWiser

If our age gap is significant, we may have differences in our interests and goals. I may be more interested in attending the symphony while she would rather go to the Taylor Swift concert. She may be much more attached to social media and I may think that is a silly absorption to have. If I mention Jimi Hendrix, she may ask who that is. If we are living together, I may suggest saving for a down payment for a house while she would rather use the disposable income to take a trip to Europe.

@MrOracle

If there’s a big age gap, you may be at very different places in your life, and no matter how much you like each other and how well matched you are in other ways, that can create some friction and conflict. You may also have to deal with other people - including strangers - who have something to say about it, and you need to be prepared to deal with that tactfully.

What Is The Key To A Woman's Heart?

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@SarahsSummer

The key to a woman’s heart is really just about listening, appreciating what she has to say, knowing what her needs in the relationship are and attempting to provide them. Also, knowing when to help solve a problem and when to just hear us out. Loving my dog and family are pluses because if you actually hate my dog, or Worse, she hates you, you’re out.

@Desconhecida

Being seen and heard. It might come across as a clichê or a myth but, clichê exist for a reason. There is no such thing as a woman out of your league. Any woman will connect with you if you look at her eyes and really listen to whatever she loves, making her believe she's worth it. The key to her heart is truly loving her.

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@OlderAndWiser

To make her feel loved is the key to a woman's heart, I don’t hesitate to say “I love you” when I actually have those feelings. It is absolutely wrong to say that on a second or third date. Lust can happen instantly, but love takes time to develop. Lust is not love and the two should never be confused. Lust is something that I feel primarily below the waist and love is something I feel above the waist.

@WhiteShoulder

Diamonds and good oral sex !!!

What Ruins A Date For You?

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@MrOracle

There are a number of things I can think of: Someone whose life is such a mess that they’re in no position to be dating, yet they’re out trying to date anyway. If you have major issues in your life to deal with (emotional, financial, health, family, legal), you should be spending your time sorting those things out before you bring another major element into your life.

@Jamie05rhs

I'm a pretty laid-back, easygoing person, so it would be kind of hard to ruin a date for me. The only thing I can think of that would spoil the fun for me would be if she asked me about my job. Because, while I don't mind talking about my job, I'd rather leave work at work.

@SydneySentinel

Too much pressure for things to move in a certain direction at a certain pace. Bad manners/attitude towards other people (waiters, etc), dominating the conversation (due to ego, not nerves), lateness, messy eating. MOST other things can be overlooked!

@MzAsh

The biggest thing I imagine that would ruin a date for me is if he’s not being present. For example, If he’s in his phone a lot, then he’s disrespectful of my time.

@AmandaYVR

Not coming on time, not being interesting or engaging, lacking communication or basic social skills, arrogance, lack of basic courtesy or kindness.

@Desconhecida

For me, is treating poorly other people who are serving him. I imagine that's the way he usually treats people who can't offer him much and what would stop him to be the same with me? The other dealbreaker is bragging. He wants you to know he's the guy, the things he has and all the reasons that would make you a fool for not sleeping with him.

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@WhiteShoulder

Been rude AKA messing with his phone the whole time. Bragging about how tough he is or how much money he makes. Not being a gentleman.

How Do You Successfully Get A Date With Someone Who Is Considered "Out Of Your League" ?

@coachTanthony

Seeing someone who is "out of your league" is simply a mindset. If you put them there then that is on YOU. The problem with saying that someone is “out of our league,” is that we begin to believe it. No one has the ability to say who is in a certain league, because simply put.... leagues don’t exist. When we engage in this self sabotage what we are really doing is just protecting us from rejection, heartbreak, and most importantly "Happiness." If you don't worry about this terrible mindset of leagues who knows what might happen. Get to a point in your life where you are happy with YOU no matter who is in your life. When you can look in the mirror and say "that is one sexy MF" ...then nobody will ever be out of your league.

@OlderAndWiser.

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Many years ago, I subscribed to this notion that some women were “out of my league.” I never approached them because what man wants to be rejected? Then I asked an extremely attractive girl to have lunch with me and she said “yes.” Then I asked her to have dinner with me and she said “yes.” Then I invited her to my apartment for dinner and she said “yes.” Then I kissed her and her body definitely said “yes.”

We eventually had a sexual relationship and it was satisfying, but her attractiveness did not make the sex automatically feel better than sex with a more ordinary girl. And this beauty seemed grateful to me. That’s when I stopped thinking about a woman being out of my league.

@Wowgirl30q

I guess I'm different in the fact I view nobody as out of my league. I think if you have the view someone is actually out of your league they might be.. Believing that says you have pretty low self-esteem. You have to believe in yourself. If I don't believe I'm the best on the market how would I expect a guy to?

What Is Something That Might Turn You On While Out On A Date?

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@Jjpayne

Dancing close with her or if she was sitting on my lap for some reason.

@Sonorous

Tbh, anything seductive. Different forms could include: Physical touch, staring, sexual body language/posture, submissive vocal tonalities, etc. In a platonic way I'd say simple kind gestures.

@Desconhecida

Confidence. I'm not saying cockyness. I'm talking about that guy who acts like he knows what he's doing, he knows who he is and what he's capable of and he's damn lucky to be with you at that moment. You feel all of this by the way he looks at you, talks to you and holds your hand.

@AmandaYVR

First, seduce my mind. Speak honestly, boldly, vulnerably. Show me who you are, and freely face criticsm and judgement. And if you do, and act honourably, it will probably be met with my acceptance.
Then, make contact. Touch me. Do it seemingly accidentally, or make it known, on purpose. Either way, see if the hairs stand up. For both of us. Then anything could happen.

When Considering Dating Someone Does Their Income Matter To You?

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@SarahsSummer

Only if their income poses a problem for us enjoying ourselves together. By that, I don’t just mean the cost of a date but the persons mood or attitude in relation to money. I’d love a guy without any money if he was upbeat and was creative about fun date ideas.

I’d completely hate a date where the guy took me to a fancy restaurant and had to tell me and remind me how much the bottle of wine he ordered cost.

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That said, if a guy complained about not having money or not wanting to go on a date while at the same time, not having a job or not looking for a job. In those instances it has less to do with him having money or not and more to do with his lack of drive and just laziness.

@AmandaYVR

It matters only if your love is not equal. Otherwise, it is inconsequential.
It should be fluid, shared, and given by each with open heart.

@Jamie05rhs

No; it does not. How much money she makes is entirely her business and it has nothing to do with my evaluation of her as a person.

Thanks for reading everyone.

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