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I will attend a staff party, what should I wear?
My employer is hosting a Christmas dinner. I will be attending and I was not sure what to wear there is basically no dress code but they said we can dress up if we want. I want to dress up, but nothing crazy. I am very...
Anonymous
(25-29) Latest Influencer Opinions
Why do I need to compromise so severely on my...
You don’t “need” to do anything. Just wait and if you can’t wait then adjust your standards. It sounds like you essentially want a perfect woman and that just doesn’t exist even without tattoos, substance use or any of that.
What’s the longest you’ve ever left this site...
I took about a two-month hiatus back in 2014 (I just needed a break) and then again, I took a month-long hiatus in 2022 for an at-home retreat.
Have you ever actually had comfortable shower sex?
Yes, many times. You just need to keep the water away from the penetration. It's also better in the summer when you don't need the water to be 80 degrees hotter than room temperature to be comfortable - to do that well, you need a shower with at least two separate nozzles. Shelves, seats,...
Does being a ‘real man’ mean staying after a...
"Real men would work through it and help you become a better woman." That assertion assumes that men are morally superior to women. (That is not MY opinion, but it seems to be the belief behind this statement.)A REAL man honors his commitment but recognizes that his partner's breach of the...
Does being a ‘real man’ mean staying after a...
Quite the opposite. Any man who lets someone walk all over him like that is no man at all. A real man imposes negative consequences for disrespect and bad behavior. A simp sticks around and rewards a cheating whore for her disrespect and selfish behavior. Unfortunately the cheating whores tend...
If I have a vitamin B3 deficiency, what should I eat?
I have amazing green pea powder but it cost $2.00 a serving so I prefer something cheaper.
What helps against acne?
I have a little acne and want to get rid of it. Are there any good remedies besides creams?
Random822
Xper 1 Age: 18 Can I wear this dress for a First Date?
Like the title said. Can I wear this dress for a first date? I always like to wear dress, i'm very girly. Our first date would be casual, this is a flowy dress. I could be wearing Sandal Heels (types of sandal that still...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Need advice on how to gain more confidence and put myself out there more?
I put effort into my appearance but I’ve never really been approached by boys my age like that? I know i definitely am pretty shy which might be holding me back but I think I’m pretty approachable? (Picture is of me for...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I deal with my growing resentment towards my unemployed wife?
I have been married for 15 years and although I love my wife very much, I am starting to resent her for not working since we had our child (8 years old). As a parent she wanted to take care of our child herself and that...
charles
Xper 5 Age: 45 Girls, for curly girls how can I get my hair like this?
hey guys I’m trying to get my hair like this girl that has black hair. I have naturally curly hair and similar type but how do I get it to look like hers? Like with the volume and stuff. My curls seem to be more tights...
Cassietrigett17358
Xper 4 Age: 29 Americans, what are your tips for someone coming living in your country?
On Sunday I will be coming to the US and live there for a period. The big stuff is already settled (Visa, health insurance, documentation, bank account etc.), I just have to do in an interview with the DHS that my lawyer...
Anonymous
(25-29) I need some ideas how should I celebrate 🍾 me post graduation?
Here are some things I came up with because the first couple nights, I want to unwind. Me time just me How should I celebrate me once i graduation 🍾? 1. Ritz Carlton spa, upscale dining, walking distance from...
CarolinaGirl5
Xper 5 Age: 30 Are these enough potatoes for my 4 ingredient and 2 seasonings cabbage soup?
The potatoes are one of the tastiest ingredients in the soup but they are not necessary for the flavour. The flavour is determined by the carrots.
Do you know any recipes to disguise medicinal mushrooms for mushroom haters?
I absolutely hate mushrooms. I think its the texture and the taste. I am not a fan but I have been told that I need more mushrooms in my diet for health reasons. I was thinking smoothies, soups or something that can...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
MK1997
Xper 7 Age: 28 Wife has friend who wanted to sleep with her. How do I deal with it?
My wife has a friend she's known since high school. All they've ever done is made out back then. No big deal. She told me last night that he wanted to sleep with her at some point in the near past. This is the first I...
dudeinohio
Master Age: 61 Am I wrong for this, for cheating when I told her countless times I needed sex and she doesn't care?
So we haven't had sex for months. She complains that she tired from work yet she has energy to go to concerts. I would even wait until both our days off and she crys and complains. So I got tired of asking and told her ,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Any advice for raising strong and confident daughters?
I take my 6-year-old daughter on daddy-daughter dates often, and she’s so full of life—she loves cheering, dancing, and gymnastics. I always encourage her before she performs by telling her, "You’re beautiful, strong, and...
derrick
Xper 5 Age: 48 My boyfriends mom doesn’t like me. Any advice?
She’s been eager for us to move in together and even bought things for our future place. Yet, she gets upset when I stay with him or drive him to work instead of him walking early in the cold. I deal with depression and...
birds
Xper 5 Age: 36 Is it childish to block someone?
I’m really frustrated with a guy I’ve been seeing, but I keep checking his social media. I’m considering blocking and deleting him, but I’m unsure if it’s childish, though part of me wants him to notice.
cotton
Xper 5 Age: 41 Is it a date or just friendly if a guy say he would “invite you for lunch” in his city?
He’s my classmate who lives 40-50 min away from our college campus in my city. We were supposed to meet at his city that’s the original college campus to do a tour but I came late and he had a doctor appt. So while we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why Do Men Believe A Woman Is Not Capable Of Running The Country/Becoming President?
England had women running their country for centuries in example and just to name a few, Queen Matilda, Queen Elizabeth I (Henry VIII daughter he was desperate to have a male heir cause he believed a female wasn't capable...
Lucy68
Yoda Age: 28 How can I be more feminine?
I wear black and all my clothes have a skull on them. My hair is hidden in a hard hat or messy bun and I always wear boots. I don’t like the idea of fake lashes, nails, eye brows, hair dye.. I have nice blonde hair and...
Anonymous
(36-45) 
smoke
Xper 5 Age: 39 I found scratches on my boyfriend’s back. What should I do?
Saturday night, I saw four scratches on my boyfriend’s back while trimming his neck. They looked like someone had scratched him during sex. When I asked, he gave excuses—work injury, his daughter, or me (I keep my nails...
keira
Xper 5 Age: 36 He looks at me with soft, dreamy eyes and a cute smile on his face? Lust or love?
He made eye contact, smiled at me softly… then started to look like he was daydreaming whilst still smiling at me… then he snapped out of it when I started talking to him… I’ve noticed that our conversations seem to flow...
KezHarris
Yoda Age: 25 Should I wait or just delete his number?
So I met him online had a great first date but due to scheduling conflicts we couldn’t meet up for our second date till 7 weeks later. The week we were ment to meet I heard nothing from him and told him I would be using...
Anonymous
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Anonymous
(30-35) What do you think about complimenting to another girl when I am in a relationship?
Hi, i am in a happy relationship for 2.5 years now. Before dating i was an highly extrovert person, talk to a lot of people keep myself busy and all, guy and girls both. Had 2-3 girls on which i had a crush on before...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it true that men don’t enjoy kissing as much as women do?
Or does it depend on the man, as an individual?
SmileyLady
Xper 5 Age: 37 Why do young women marry older men?
Why do young women marry older men?
Melanie31
Xper 7 Age: 18 My wife wants a break. Is there any hope for us?
My wife and I, together for 17 years with two kids, are facing serious marital issues. A few months ago, she expressed doubts about our future, sparked by a tough year marked by grief and personal struggles. While she...
woody
Xper 5 Age: 44 
thegreenyogi
Guru Age: 35 My wife is no longer sexually attracted to me. What should I do?
My wife and I have been together for a decade and have three young kids. She’s no longer sexually attracted to me, though she still finds others attractive. There’s been no infidelity, and we’re good friends. I’ve been...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How can I surprise my husband?
I want to surprise my husband but I'm not sure how to do it in a meaningful way. He’s not really into big gestures, so I’m looking for something thoughtful and intimate instead. Any suggestions?
angels
Xper 5 Age: 46 Should I be turned off by my online friend? Or am I overthinking this?
So I’ve had an online friend for a few years and he started wishing me a happy birthday every year after we got to know each other a little better. There were times where he would & I wouldn’t, when that were the case,...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
Are daddy issues solvable?
Okay so this question is more for women that grew up with an absent father. A bit of backstory to better explain my question, the kind of dad where you know he loves you but he fucked up so bad when you were young (an...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is liking a girls story “flirting”?
I’m just wondering a guys stance on this. A crush of mine has been liking all my insta stories. Just wondering if I should dm him?
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would he secretly check my body out when I’m not looking?
My friend and I were walking out and my friend told me that this guy was checking my body out when my back was faced to him. He noticed my friend caught him and quickly looked away, acting as if he wasn’t looking. What...
Anonymous
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Anonymous
(25-29) 
woahhh152
Xper 6 Age: 27 Is this acceptable after 12 years together? Am I wrong to feel this way?
So I've been with my partner for 12 years. Our sex life has not always been the best but it's not so much the sex but the intimacy of being close I miss. As the longer we are together there seems to be no sex and no...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) 
Nobody_200
Xper 6 Age: 29 Why is she making me wait?
I’ve been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now and on the second date she let me kiss her but she wasn’t getting too physical or too passionate. (I thought that was weird but I am a passionate kisser so maybe it’s...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
Kellyamy
Xper 5 Age: 36 
736_switch_blade
Xper 7 Age: 28 
Leenah_1
Xper 5 Age: 32 What’s the difference between getting comfortable and losing feelings?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months, and it feels less exciting now. I’m not looking for constant excitement, but we’ve hit a phase where we don’t talk for hours anymore or just enjoy being together without...
nicole
Xper 5 Age: 39 Why do hot men deal with rejection so poorly?
So… There’s this guy I dated and he treated me the way as if he wanted something casual, so when I met up him I told him I used him for forgetting the guy who I had feelings for long distance and that I dated him because...
How can I get her to feel comfortable around me?
Last night, I went to my girlfriend’s house for date night. We played chess. After a few turns, she started acting funny. She’d get up after every turn to go “clean the kitchen”. That was her excuse. The game took over 3...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
Stanley
Xper 7 Age: 52 
chocolatetwopointo
Xper 7 Age: 18 Will he regret it after months?
We've been in long distance relationship for about 2-3 years. He wanted me to live and study in his country but I can't. And he said he can't come to my country also. He blamed me for everything like I don't go to him...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
KezHarris
Yoda Age: 25 Is physical intimacy more important to the woman or the man in a relationship?
Aside from just sex, things like handholding, hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc. Are they more wanted and needed by the woman or the man? Or perhaps both? Your thoughts, or feedback?
Kayla45
Guru Age: 29 
What does it mean if a guy tells you, you have an evil laugh?
He said I have an evil laugh but he can’t tell if he likes it or not. I think I’m offended lol
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I live with mom at age 27 or move out?
My mom moved to a very far city 2 hours away from my job. The commute is costly so I’m not saving any money on rent. my mom rented a senior apt and it’s only one bedroom and I have no bedroom. The one bedroom we have...
Sugar100
Yoda Age: 29 Any financial aids ideas?
Do y’all have any financial aids method for students besides working?
Anonymous
(18-24) So…still no gun safety laws when former criminal tried assassinating Trump again with fully auto AK?
OddBeMe
Master Age: 42 Why is it so hard to lose weight?
I've been intermittent fasting for a week and my weight has not budged. I'm 5"10 135 pounds and would like to get to 120. Anybody have weight loss secrets. I'm going to start including a gallon of water.
Tallblackgirl
Xper 4 Age: 39 How to cope with the regret of letting him go?
I’m in a very strange place emotionally right now. I had an LDR with a guy 5 years ago for only about 5 months that I never actually met in person as he was on the other side of the world (I know right, get over it). I...
Anonymous
(25-29) I think my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore. Any advice?
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore, even though she insists she does. At the beginning of our relationship, everything was amazing. We had great conversations, shared similar interests, supported each other,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I reasonable to ask my husband not to tell his family about my miscarriage?
I had a miscarriage and I know that if my husband tells one of his family members it’ll spread to his whole family. Am I wrong for asking him not to tell them?
Anonymous
(25-29) What does this mean to you?
What does it mean when a man that you have feelings for and has feelings for lets you sit on his lap and he holds your arm around his neck?
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do men say they prefer modest women with light makeup when I get more attention in revealing clothes and heavy makeup?
I used to dress up a lot more and do my makeup heavier. I go out to more places now than I did before but I dress more modest not conservatively just less exposed. I think I dress well still just more covered and I wear...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why isn't wasabi used more in western cooking?
In the west we associate wasabi with sushi, it's what raises it from being boring fish and rice to something nice. Anyone who's bought some to make sushi has probably tried the left overs with other foods. I find it goes...
purplepoppy
Influencer Age: 26 My girlfriend has a male friend that texts her a lot. Should I take an action?
Last week we were out having dinner, and her phone kept buzzing. Every time she’d check her messages, I’d notice it was him. At first, I tried to brush it off, but as the evening went on, I found myself getting more and...
Stanley
Xper 7 Age: 52 How much are community college fees in the USA?
Can anyone with detailed information about annual fees answer?
Anonymous
(18-24) Anonymous
(Under 18) I'm lonely but I also don't want to be in a relationship. What should I do?
To add to it, I get stares but no apporoaches. If I do get to striking up something, they act so weird and freeze. Only stalkers, narcissistic types and men with boundary issues and obsessive behaviours want to progress...
Radiate143
Xper 6 Age: 26 Does being in love mean you are ready for a committed, exclusive relationship?
Do you wait until you feel that you are in love with your partner to suggest that you two date exclusively (NOT asking about living together)? Can you enter an exclusive relationship without already being in love? Is...
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How do you let go when you know this person is the one?
My ex called me up and told me he had a dream about us. In the dream, I showed up at his parents place and we ended up having sex in his old room and he said it was wild and crazy. And then proceeded to tell me that he...
How do I not feel broken?
So i have this friend who i started liking out of nowhere more than a friend i couldn't keep it inside anymore so i told him. His response was that he knew, but before i told him a few weeks before he wasn't treating me...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can I be in love with someone I’m not fully attracted to?
I've dated someone who made me feel deeply understood, cared for, and supported, even though I wasn't initially drawn to his appearance. Over time, his personality, kindness, and shared moments made me feel a stronger...
Why are people “so “ concerned about my relationship status?
You need to get out more, you need a boyfriend let’s find you a boyfriend etc omg
Anonymous
(25-29) I fell in love with a guy who love bombed me then dropped me like a hot pocket? How can I get over it?
he love bombed me by giving me so much love and attention. I was always insecure and thought he looked better than me and why would he like me. We dated and saw eachother almost everyday for over a month. The thing is I...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
I cannot stand my boyfriend’s dog and I don’t know what to do about it?
This dog is mean. MEAN! She has her moments but she is so unpredictable and you never know if she is going to bite you or not. My boyfriend does nothing to discipline her and her training sucks. I want to mention that I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I send my boyfriend a birthday text?
I am on one-month break with my boyfriend. I posted some Facebook stories staying at hospital as my dad is being sick. He saw my stories but didn’t bother even to ask. Even some random friends on Facebook would ask about...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a guy block me for no reason?
He came and talk to me making me feel special he said he add me on but he canceled it cause I saw he add me and when I check there was no… request 😕 why lie to me then I found his account under a page that he likes I add...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
ThaMaskedMarvel
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Itsmeirem
Xper 4 Age: 24 My boyfriend keeps making “jokes” about me cheating on him or asking if I want to break up. Is he trying to tell me something?
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a while, and recently, he's started making these offhand "jokes" about me cheating on him or asking if I want to break up. It's starting to bother me because I don't know...
golden
Xper 3 Age: 41 Anonymous
(25-29) What should I wear for the first date?
Comfy or Fancy? What shout I wear for the first date in a cozy coffee shop? What abıut hair and makeup?
Itsmeirem
Xper 4 Age: 24 My drunk husband admitted he only settled for me because his first choice was unavailable. Any advice?
I’m feeling really hurt and confused right now. Last night, my husband got drunk and admitted something that’s been weighing heavily on me. He said that he only "settled" for me because the person he originally wanted to...
Anonymous
(36-45) I forgave my boyfriend for cheating but It’s still irritates me. What should I do?
My boyfriend cheated a year ago, I forgave him. Since then, he’s been amazing, and I’m happy with him now. I don’t regret staying, and I trust him, but I’m struggling to fully let go of the past. How can I move on and...
Sheila
Xper 5 Age: 44 Boyfriend falls asleep everytime when we hang out. What should I do?
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years and living together for about a year. Recently, he's developed a habit of falling asleep whenever we spend time together in the evenings, which is starting to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it weird that my boyfriend doesn’t tell me where he is or who he’s with? Am I being irrational?
My boyfriend and I used to have better communication but lately he doesn’t really tell me where he’s going. I always let him know where I will be. I’m just feeling like our communication styles don’t match. For example,...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why would a guy view my instagram story immediately after posting and then go back and like it hours later?
basically I’ve kinda been crushing on this guy from afar for a few years now. recently he viewed a photo on my instagram story minutes after I posted it then liked the story the next day right before the story expired....
Anonymous
(18-24) How to learn a new language by yourself?
I would like to learn French without taking language classes. What is the best way to learn a new language at home? How long does it take to learn?
Itsmeirem
Xper 4 Age: 24 Why would a girl wave and say hello to me from the elevator?
I was standing on one of floors talking to someone in the lift lobby. The lift stopped and doors open and there was a few people in the lift. She was in the elevator and I wasn't getting in, she was looking at me and...
Anonymous
(30-35) When you take interest in someone new, how much does your fam/friends opinion of the person matter?
I don’t give much of a fck what others think. But when things start to seem sketch and I’m unsure of if the flags are red then I start to care for other’s advice. Usually by then, its too late lol. But Other than that, no...
Ginger1907
Explorer Age: 27 
Anonymous
(30-35) My boyfriend has slept with hundreds and it's bothering me. How can I get over it?
I've known my boyfriend for years and was aware of his past, but I'm struggling with finding out about all the people he's slept with, especially those I know personally. I recently moved to be with him, sacrificing a...
ephedrine
Xper 5 Age: 42 When and how should I confess my feelings for her?
Hello! My best friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. They had been together for three years. I met her about two years ago and in the difficult last months of their relationship, I have realised I actually have...
Pieterrabbit
Xper 1 Age: 32 Boyfriend said he’s “not feeling it” but he also said he still loves me?
He’s barely trying. I asked and he said he’s “not feeling us”, which was totally sudden, we were fine a month ago. He said he still loved me
Anonymous
(25-29) I feel like a mother to my boyfriend. What should I do?
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2.5 years, and while things were great at first, the past nine months have been difficult. I've started to feel more like his mother than his girlfriend, constantly cleaning up...
leiley
Xper 5 Age: 41 