I fell in love with a guy who love bombed me then dropped me like a hot pocket? How can I get over it?

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he love bombed me by giving me so much love and attention. I was always insecure and thought he looked better than me and why would he like me. We dated and saw eachother almost everyday for over a month. The thing is I keep seeing that he’s looking at girls and I would storm off. He told me to not do that. Few days ago I did it again, he also noticed that were so many girls more prettier than me. On top of that we had dinner with his cousins beautiful wife. I was jealous he sat beside her and me then I walked off after we done eating. Ofcourse not infront of them. I was feeling anxious and self conscious. Then he started treating me like complete crap the next day. Which he did not ever before.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You realize you that you had jealousy issues and you went for who you liked!

Many players love bomb and get mad women don't like them looking at their next score.

Your much better off given all these things! He probably has a girlfriend waiting already to date that as you say is prettier!

beefcakebradybatson · Accepted Answer

Get another lad.

lanelle116 · Answer

I'll say this. let it hurt until it doesn't anymore, cut off any forms of communication with him and allow yourself to heal. Live your life to the fullest and don't let his musty dusty ass come back, don't be his favorite dummy he runs back to because he knows you'll take him back. Be the one who got away and STAYED away. This was something that I needed to hear when I was in a similar situation so I'm telling it to you. Act like the queen you are and don't receive any less treatment from anyone.

BetaBucks · Answer

I promise you that you are scaring him off. You aren't being rational, and healthy men don't stick around for that. They recognize the likelihood of an incoming abuse cycle, and they nail. If you learn to control your responses to emotions, you will live a much happier life.

the29thhuman · Answer

Girl, this red flag can be seen from where I’m at. He’s got you blissed out of your tree and he hasn’t even done a thing for you.
The best thing you can do is learn from this experience and know the signs of this ever happening again.
All talk and zero show.
If you don’t see his wicked ways, I predict you’ll be pregers and he won’t pay u a pennie.

morganherrel · Answer

I could be reading this wrong, but I think your insecurity was an extreme turn-off and potential relationship killer.

If it was a substantive issue for you, a mature approach might have been to sit down with him and discuss the problem so that you both could agree on a solution. Either he agrees to control his eyes better so you don't feel as insecure, or you learn to tolerate the wandering eyes of your hot boyfriend by trusting him more, or some middle ground.

Seangreen · Answer

He probably has NPD or BPD, you doged a bullet. Block him because when he needs attention sometime in the future he'll be back and it's not going to go well

Anonymous · Answer

So I met this dame over Chicago way see?

Straight2thepoint · Answer

What on Walmarts name was that metaphor.

Woyboy · Answer

Fuck his friend

TheCaller · Answer

Fall in love with another man, it's that simple

Anonymous · Answer

😆😆😆

Maybeyoutoo · Answer

Just forget it

cavedweller1973 · Answer

That’s terrible

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