How do you get over a guy that you had a one-sided love for?

[Anonymous]

Which never went away.

[Aelleden]

It's probably the most painful thing.
My advice would be to realize that if it didn't work or didn't happen, it was because it was the best thing that could happen at this due time.

That's the philosophy I apply in my daily life, if it doesn't result in something that I wanted, it happened because there was a reason for it.

Let's give an example, there is always a possible reason that explains why it was the best thing that could have happened.

Let's say you lose a family member, you feel very sad, lost, don't even realize what's gonna happen next, your instant reaction is gonna be "why me, why now, why?" "he was such a genuine nice man, he didn't deserve"

Maybe this person died now because if he didn't die now, he would have died maybe 12 years later from a terrible painful disease, or maybe he would have killed 2 children while driving home, or maybe he would done something terrible by mistake.
it might not look like it was the best time, but tell yourself that it was, for a reason you will never know.

Things happen for a reason, and it's always for the best.

Hope that helped.

[Vikkrram]

It is too hard maam beleive me. Infact i am trying to say sorry to her so that i can get rid out of my guilt... but now she's acting all weird.

[Jacobbbb]

You find someone else