What should I wear for the first date?

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Comfy or Fancy? What shout I wear for the first date in a cozy coffee shop? What abıut hair and makeup?

luvstoned4him · Accepted Answer

I usually try to look at where the date is taking place, also the time.. like in the night you maybe need a jacket , scarf etc.. and then you just style it to you liking. Add your colors, patterns etc but regardless of what you choose, chose something that you feel confident in

Sunnysunny123 · Accepted Answer

Comfy but not sweatpants, go for jeans and some cute shirt or if it's too hot go for shorts instead. Do a little make up just enaugh to highlight what is already there. You could go for half up half down hair or a messy bun maybe.

nawtee_me · Accepted Answer

Is sex even an option on the first date? If not at all then something comfy and non revealing in any way. If a maybe the something comfy and that you are normally seen in. If yes then comfy and slightly revealing as to let him know you are open to possibilities…..

kmg9150 · Accepted Answer

You should wear your authentic self. Do what you would on any other day as if you were going to get coffee by yourself…

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

I don't know what your personal style is, but I'd say wear a dress, hair down in loose waves,  very  light makeup, and sandals/strappy heels (unless it's cold).

bobalife · Answer

Be yourself because that’s who they’re meeting and will be getting :)
But to directly answer, if it’s just a coffee shop with no other activities plan after… be a cute comfortable or casually dress up I’d called that haha

BadApple69 · Answer

My opinion is that you are not selling someone else. You are selling you so be yourself. If you are a jeans girl then wear jeans. If your a dress girl wear a dress. Just be who you are and be comfortable.

Defnotme123 · Answer

I would say wear something casual but cute. A pair of jeans and a nice top. A dress. Match your hair to your outfit. Half-up half-down is always a good option. Natural makeup can enhance your features while still showing off your natural beauty. Just make sure you feel good in whatever you wear.

EmmaMary · Answer

Clothes wouldn't be a bad idea to start with!

SphynxUK · Answer

Dress in something you typically wear. You want to feel like you. Obviously keep in mind the location. It’s just a coffee shop.

CindyRuns · Answer

I'd go with nice, but casual !!! Just a little makeup would do !!!

Jennz6 · Answer

Wear something cute 🥰 but casual, it’s a coffee shop. I personally would wear a short skirt and a pretty blouse, and makeup, lipstick anyway and however you do your hair. Sandals 👡 are casual and don’t forget your jewelry.

ZS007 · Answer

depends where you re going. dress up but not too much. be natural

Caroline91 · Answer

Casual Cute... maybe a sundress and sandals?

seviyorummm · Answer

Tights may be your priority, the choice is yours, but if you do not want tights, choose a comfortable, loose-fitting, mini-cleavage dress.  What would you wear as underwear with this outfit?

Straight2thepoint · Answer

Nothing... joking something shitty. If he is the guy. He will see through it. F first impressions. Be honest and simple. And something else but that's not what you asked. That's all we want.

Open-minded99 · Answer

Something that is cute but sexy but not sluty. Be yourself

Pohjolan · Answer

I'd recommend getting one those flexible merino wool sweaters. At the same time its kind of revealing but due to being highly practical it doesn't count as slutty.

theguy4 · Answer

On my first date we went on a bike ride I showed up in tight cycling clothes

Sharkstealth · Answer

Women like to look sexy for their male companion. I like women in casual attire without all the lashes and excessive makeup.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Stylishly comfy. Don’t show up in a shirt with holes in it but don’t wear a formal dress

Anonymous · Answer

What's your most sexually appealing body feature? That will play a BIG role in what you should wear.

OddBeMe · Answer

If you want it to go somewhere don’t fuckin dress “comfy”. Show skin.

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Casual. The person needs to see the real you from the start.

justabuddy · Answer

Something fancy enough that it looks like you care but comfy enough that you don't look like you care too much.

tinderf · Answer

A dressy outfit with 2 colors, not more. Then you look hot

Anonymous · Answer

You don't need makeup, most guys prefer natural beauty.  Wear something comfy, casual, or sporty (if that's what he likes).

cavedweller1973 · Answer

Something that catches his attention but says hey pall I’m not a slut

jjj101010 · Answer

I mean outfit choice would be dictated by your body shape anyway?

MyBrainsInsaneReign · Answer

Fancy would seem weird in a coffee shop. Go comfy.

Anonymous · Answer

Try revealing dresses. Check his reaction and all.

itsannalee · Answer

Comfy but still classy.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Comfy for a coffee date.

slatyb · Answer

Comfy. Not much makeup.

Tim2nice · Answer

Wear whatever you like

AIexandra · Answer

An elegant suit would go perfect

ehatsham_hussain · Answer

I prefer simply comfy little fancy..

Ladsin2 · Answer

Sundress.  Or A romper

Jerre · Answer

I’d go comfy with a little makeup

rockhard9 · Answer

Make sure you’re wearing sexy underwear!!

paledreams · Answer

Comfort Fancy 😊😊♀️

LiamJHayden · Answer

Be yourself.

dazzafromoz · Answer

Nothing

TurboAnon · Answer

Something modest.

Jpie555 · Answer

Comfy yet sexy

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