What should I wear on my very first date? + tips?

[Anonymous]

I am going on a date with a guy! I am 26 and I never dated because of multiple reasons. I am now on a dating app. A guy liked me so much and planned a couple of dates. I am very nervous I don't know what to wear i want a good first impression & i want to be comfortable cause i know i am gonna be stressed! Please feel free to attach pictures of outfits. Its a casual date and a cinema date. How can i make it less awkward in the cinema, how can i establish boundaries since i dont want him touching me or kissing me at all? How can i reduce my anxiety? Help?😭🙏

[Anonymous]

If you picked a decent man (this is key, most women don't) he'll respect modest attire. I can't get specific as I'm not up on women fashion. But pushing the envelope on showing skin only says one of two things. 1. You don't respect yourself. 2. You have little to nothing else going on for you. It sounds like you already have the right idea. As far as boundaries go. You owe him NOTHING more than your company. Let that be your mantra. Be friendly but demand that he respect you. Do not waffle on this. It's a slippery slope. Likewise do not black list him because he might make a move. He's not gay. But no means no and a good man WILL respect that. If he doesn't show you respect the hell with what he thinks. There are over 4billion men on the planet (just like there are over 4 billion women) there will be another one along.

Hopefully that was at least SOME help to you. Good luck!👍

[CountryWanderer]

Wear something casual. T shirt and jeans is a good bet

[AI Opinion]

On a first date, confidence is key! Wear something that makes you feel comfortable and reflects your style. A nice top with jeans or a casual dress are great choices for a cinema date. 🎬 To set boundaries, communicate openly and clearly but kindly express your feelings. It might help to mention you're new to dating, which can also reduce awkwardness. Deep breaths can help ease your anxiety—and remember to enjoy yourself and be present in the moment. Good luck! 😊

[EmmaMary]

Clothes would be a good start. smh

[Asker]

I would hope id have clothes on

[oswaldcobblepot]

A first date always involves a little touching

[Asker]

I would hope not because i am nervous 😭🙏

[oswaldcobblepot]

Why are you nervous? Normal to be nervous.

[oswaldcobblepot]

Suggestion only... if you don't want him touching you, then trying to wear an outfit where that shows off your body so he doesn't have to touch you. A short skirt or a blouse without a bra

[Asker]

That will do the opposite 😭

[oswaldcobblepot]

You said you didn't want him touch you... dressing like that will lessen the chance he will touch you

[Asker]

How wouldn’t that tempt him

[oswaldcobblepot]

He will be regardless of what you wear. What we are trying to do is reduce his temptation.

If you're really this nervous, you should ask yourself if your really ready to date

[Anonymous]

How about crop top and short shorts? ;)