How can I get her to feel comfortable around me?

[Anonymous]

Last night, I went to my girlfriend’s house for date night. We played chess. After a few turns, she started acting funny. She’d get up after every turn to go “clean the kitchen”. That was her excuse. The game took over 3 hours to finish.

After that, she invited me into her bedroom so we can cuddle and watch a movie. During the movie, she pulls a blanket over her butt and lets out a huge fart then says she “may or may not have to have a bowel movement soon”. I told her to just go to the bathroom. She said not while I’m there and admitted that she made the excuse to go “clean the kitchen” between turns was so that she could go fart and I wouldn’t smell it.

I told her I’d leave and she said no, she’ll hold it. Then she pushes me down on the bed and kisses me.

I enjoy spending time with her, but I don’t want her ruining the night by prolonging games so she can go fart in a different room or feel like she has to hide farts. I’d rather her poop and then come back to play or cuddle uninterrupted.

[electromagnetic]

It took me 2 years of dating before I was comfortable to poo at my husband’s house. I’ve made every excuse just to go home and poo. It takes time, especially for those that cannot go in public. Give her time. As long as you reassure her it’s okay, she’ll come around eventually. Or tell her to turn the cold water in the washroom on so you cannot hear anything.

[Asker]

She admitted she’d go in public before going around me. Haha Good to know. I guess it’ll be more awkward date nights for the near future!

[DishLady]

Give her some time. Comfort comes once sexual tension balances out.

[CuriousHubby]

Haha that won't go away! Girls are judged so let her be comfy doing that!

Took a long time and several very sick weeks together flbefore my wife got ok with farting near me.

She still turns something up loud to poop!

Your doing good just comfort her and maybe thank her for it? For being sweet and do the same back!

[ProbablyClueless]

It's just one of those things, man. She'll need time to get comfortable, and it takes as long as it takes. The only thing that's going to make the situation worse is you trying to force it to get better.

[AgentG111]

How long have you been dating? Some females are very private about their body functions even after a year of being together.

Have a conversation with her. Express your desire to be with her and if she has issues or problems try and work something out for her comfort and support her as you can.

If not deal with it or break up.

[Open-minded99]

BE YOURSELF