Is it true that men don’t enjoy kissing as much as women do?

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Or does it depend on the man, as an individual?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We definitely like it. But it seems to be more satisfying an emotional intimacy need for women then men. Also it makes them more secure they aren’t being used as “an object”

Funny brought this up. I had a bit of a role reversal on this recently with a girl who wanted to do everything EXCEPT kiss. Not exactly sure why. However I’m guessing but she actually wanted me to just view her as an object and/or she saw me as an object. While not that common these women really do exist.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Make a poll, who prefer kissing or sex, we know what are going to be the results of what most men or most women would say, kissing is mainly women thing, sex is mainly men's thing, of course asexual men exist, and aromantic women exist, but they very rare.

ohsheeT · Answer

No I absolutely love kissing because there's a hundred different ways to kiss and on any given time or moment you use one of those kisses I mean with the right pressure or with the right slide of the lips or the Right touch of the lips and you just don't kiss the lips you kiss everything LOL

Apple1996 · Answer

Not sure but personally I'm not crazy about kissing tbh like it's good in the right moments but do I want it to last more than a few mintues? Nah

AviatorTom · Answer

It's hard to generalize, but I think that's basically true. Most women could kiss all day, while most men want to kiss for a while and then move on to something more intimate.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not true , I love kissing a girl , I could kiss her for hours, if she is amazing to me

mandyfire98 · Answer

Depends on the person. Both my boyfriend and I love kissing

RingOfFire · Answer

That's a good question. I've never been a woman so I don't know.

I enjoy kissing someone that I love, no question about it. And there are times when it is really an important part of a relationship and very deep and profound.

But looking back over the women I've kissed in my life, I do have this feeling that they crave it more than I do on a regular basis. Although that's more like a hunch than a scientific observation.

Going even further out on a guessing limb it seems like it's more important to them as a form of validation of the relationship. So maybe they need it more frequently than I tend to need. I see other things as a validation.

Then there's the sexual aspect. Women definitely need more foreplay than men and that kind of kissing is an important part of it.

Great question!

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

According to research, it is generally considered true that women tend to place a greater importance on kissing than men, suggesting that they may enjoy it more overall; studies often show women valuing kissing as a key part of relationship development and intimacy, while men may view it more as a prelude to sexual activity.
Key points to consider:
Perception of kissing:
Women often see kissing as a way to assess compatibility and connection, while men might see it more as a physical act leading to sex.
Hormonal influence:
Female hormones fluctuate throughout their cycle, potentially impacting their desire for kissing, especially during ovulation.
Individual variation:
Not all men and women fit this pattern, and individual experiences and preferences can vary significantly.

ManInChains · Answer

I think men care more about kissing than women do. Women tend to be the ones to freak out if a man attempts to kiss her without her consent. Women don’t turn spontaneous kissing to be romantic anymore. But if a woman does it to a man it’s fine. If a man does it to a woman he is a predator 🤷🏻‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

1. No, all men are exactly alike.

2. However, since I'm a guy, I don't really know how much girls REALLY enjoy kissing. I'd need to crawl inside a woman's skin to feel what she feels. So tell me how much girls enjoy kissing and maybe then I can answer the question.

godfatherfan · Answer

I would have posted the exact opposite question.

I love kissing. Once you finally get the women to a makeout session, they are fine with kissing. But they get there kicking and screaming (figuratively). They try and make all kinds of excuses why they don't want to. very frustrating.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Totally depends on the person. I used to be okay with it but now I'm just weirded out by it. I understand that hygienically oral sex is probably worse (If anybody knows which is hygienically the better option kissing or oral sex I'd love to hear about it) but the whole idea of swirling spitty tongues endlessly just seems so middle school and weird.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

It depends on the people. I've met women that don't kiss. They'll suck a mean dick, but they think kissing is weird. I don't mind kissing. It usually turns women on like when I finger bang them.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not true at all. Some men are still romantics, thankfully.

Matt_M · Answer

I enjoy it a lot. When you've been single as long as I have, you start to miss those little expressions of intimacy. Hand-holding and cuddling are both things I really miss as well. Sex is great too, obviously, but it isn't the main draw of a relationship for me.

Rachey1986 · Answer

I think it just depends on the person. I've had partners who love it and others who just seem to get on with it as quickly as they can to lead to other things

integrale77 · Answer

I think it depends on the man personally I love kissing it just makes a connection and stirs things up for me downstairs. During sex it adds to the moment by adding more passion to things.

SotiCoto · Answer

If you think about it... men would probably have a better perception of womens' preferences and women would have a better perception of mens' preferences in this context. I mean guys don't go around asking each other how much they enjoy kissing... unless they're gay. Gay guys might know how much guys like kissing... but most other guys can only speak for themselves in complete isolation, and the women they've been with.

AgentG111 · Answer

Each human is completely different. I've been told that I enjoy kissing more then other men and also been told that I want to kiss too much so it's also who you are with if they want or don't want kissing as well.

SuckOnThisOpinion · Answer

They better fuckin enjoy it as much as I do or I'm not interested

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

Wha

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I definitely love kissing.. It's one of the best parts actually.. If I'm attracted to the woman of course.. So it depends on the individual..

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I like it, I just don't like it going on and on, at that point it seems weird and pointless

paledreams · Answer

Most men are let-downs and most men don't even know foreplay properly.  So yes, blame men 100 percent I would blame them even lol 🤣 silly men

SuchSightsToShowYou · Answer

men love kissing, but we also want it to lead somewhere else.

Lliam · Answer

I don't know about all men or women, but I love kissing.

Shamalien · Answer

I’ve always been a fan. I don't know if women like it more…I think for men we can only kiss for so long before it has to lead somewhere though

MaxW1 · Answer

i would say it's just as romantic for me as it is for girls

WhitneySnow · Answer

I’m not sure. All the boys I’ve kissed have loved it.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

that's the stereotype but a lot of us love kising. I could for hours when it's passionate

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Definitely a person-by-person thing. I love kissing.

Makeushiver · Answer

I think it depends on the guy. I think kissing can be extremely sexy

RedInnocent69 · Answer

It depends very much on the guy. I adore making out. Wetter the better! Can suck face for hours 😛

ABC29 · Answer

No. I really enjoy kissing my girlfriend. I could kiss her all the time and every time it arouse me too.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Maybe on average, but I personally like a lot of physical touch and kissing.

2inthepink · Answer

Yes there are guys that don't just like some don't like going down I'd like to think the majority does enjoy kissing just as much

fish5505_87 · Answer

I love kissing, one of the most passionate and sexy things you can do.

Ethan_T · Answer

I only kissed someone one time it was a dare so I don't know 😅

Straight2thepoint · Answer

That's a lie. The problem is that it results to a blood flow dilemma.

Nerdvana · Answer

Depends on the individual. I love kissing and making out. Its very sexy.

Billybob46 · Answer

I love kissing, but my girlfriend initiated our first kiss, so maybe you have a point.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

I think it's fair to say that both genders enjoy it enough to keep doing it.

Anonymous · Answer

I love making out... but one girl said I was terrible at it so now I'm super self conscious about it & super nervous to try and kiss another girl. I don't know. Other girls never said that.

Alex-Snow · Answer

While I like it I think you might have a good point. What have you noticed with your boyfriends?

jshm2 · Answer

Depend what they're kissing, I suppose.,...

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Oh I enjoy it quite a bit!!!

Anonymous · Answer

Not true, but I never had a kiss anyway.

Open-minded99 · Answer

Not true I love making out and kissing

tzdc21 · Answer

Depends on the guy

jahaims · Answer

It depends on the individual not gender

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

No it's not true.

Iron_Man · Answer

Not for me I love it.

DishLady · Answer

That's bs.

Billlewis · Answer

That depends on what we're kissing.

SlightlyMental · Answer

I love kissing.

Fuentes · Answer

I enjoy it as long as it leads to smashing

Jltakk · Answer

Seems like it would be fun

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

I enjoy kissing, as a Man.

Hannajenky · Answer

I hope not

Slim57 · Answer

Not at all

eagle1951 · Answer

no it's not

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