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Long story short. I had a high school sweet heart who I was with for 2.5 years. we always talked about getting married and he told me I was the love of his life. Eventually, he got tired of being in a relationship and broke up with me. He admitted he had cheated on me twice but kept it a secret for a month. after the break up, he told me we were still going to get married and that he was always going to love me. we continued seeing each other for a while and he always treated me as if we were dating, but then admitted he had been using me for sex. he then told me that he had been cheating on his other girlfriend with me and that I should get out of his life because he loved her and not me. he blocked me on all social media and I didn't hear from him until recently he sent me a message asking how I was and telling me how sorry he was for everything he had done and that he took me for granted and that he was never able to find another girl like me. he says he has changed and has left his partying days behind and wants to settle down. should i give him another chance? I never stopped loving him, and he was a great boyfriend before he wanted to party and be single...

once said he was with his mom, but she asked me if I knew were he was.
kept cheating on me a secret for a month.
lied about the details and fabircated a story.
if I ever brought up breaking up, he'd send pictures of us & say things like "u are the love of my life" "we're meant for each other".
dumped me after cheating and a week later had sex with another girl.
lied about drugs various times.
admitted to using me for sex after we broke up.
knew I cared about him and made it seem as if he had feelings for me when he didn't just so I would sleep with him.
cheated on his current girlfriend w me 6 times.
left me in a cold car while he went to a party and didn't feel badly about it.
told me he didn't like certain people but to their face would act like they were his bff's.
after break up said "Ill always love you" "we'll still end up together" to keep me waiting around. would text & go to lunch with other girls.
found him laying with other girls at parties.
would say 1 thing but act completley differently.
thought highly of himself and had a hard time admiting he was wrong.
people called him a robot because they said he had no feelings.
was verbally manipulative, knew exactly what to say to get me to do what he wanted.
drinks hard alcohol every night.
I found a message on his phone saying "OMG I am so done with her" but he never brought up what was wrong to me, acted like everything was fine.
list could go on and on..

tendencies- lack of remorse, guilt or shame. immaturity, pathological liars, manipulative, conning, deceptive. big ego. unfaithful and promiscuous. untruthful and insincere. poor judgement and failure to learn from past mistakes. lack of empathy. shallow/show little feelings. have big self worth and feel they are more important than others. narcissistic and arrogant. masters of deception. main purpose is to get what they want, regardless of how it will harm others. often lie and put on false faces.

how he acted- once said he was with his mom, but she asked me if I knew were he was. kept cheating on me a secret for a month. lied about the details and fabircated a story. if I ever brought up breaking up, he'd send pictures of us & say things like "u are the love of my life" "we're meant for each other". dumped me after cheating and a week later had sex with another girl. lied about drugs various times. admitted to using me for sex after we broke up. knew I cared about him and made it seem as if he had feelings for me when he didn't just so I would sleep with him. cheated on his current girlfriend w me 6 times. left me in a cold car while he went to a party and didn't feel badly about it. told me he didn't like certain people but to their face would act like they were his bff's. after break up said "Ill always love you" "we'll still end up together" to keep me waiting around. would text & go to lunch with other girls. found him laying with other girls at parties. would say 1 thing but act completley differently. thought highly of himself and had a hard time admiting he was wrong. people called him a robot because they said he had no feelings. was verbally manipulative, knew exactly what to say to get me to do what he wanted. drinks hard alcohol every night. I found a message on his phone saying "OMG I am so done with her" but he never brought up what was wrong to me, acted like everything was fine. list could go on and on...

we dated for 3 years. he said things like we would get married & he knew he could never find anyone like me. i developed depression & anxiety & I began to lose friends. he never liked to be honest with me bc he was afraid to hurt my feelings. he started wanting to see me less often & party w/ friends. he cheated on me, which he swore he would never do, & lied about it & kept it a secret for a month. one time @ a party I was upset & started crying. I saw a text to "Stacy", saying "OMG i am done w/ her I swear to god". him and Stacy liked each other b4 we started dating. they had class 2gether & went 2 lunch to do hw a lot. he admitted to cheating on me w/ "Debra" & broke up w/ me. he said he'd always love me & we'd end up 2gether. I found out he had sex with Stacy a week after breaking up w/ me. but he was still telling me he loved me & wanted 2 b w/ me in the future. we hung out a few times & it was as if I was still his girlfriend. @ his grad party i felt overwhelmed bc Debra and Stacy were there & his family was giving me hugs, saying they missed me & asking if I was ok. this made upset & began to cry & crossed his face off in a pic. b4 going 2 college he said we r done 4 good & I need 2 move on & he didn't care if we ever saw each other again. he came home 4 Christmas & we hung out 5 times after that. now he admitted he was using me for sex and said he had no feelings. he said him and Stacy were still a thing & he has been cheating on her w/ me. Stacy lives in AL and he lives in IL. both in college and they only see each other when she is visiting friends in WI but they text a lot. they only hang out at parties. he told me things w/ her wouldn't b the same as they were with me (meaning not as serious) & he couldnt see himself ending up w/ her. is there any way in the far future he may realize he made a mistake and come back? he used to be a great guy. his mom told me that she thinks one day he will realize he made a mistake by letting me go