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I've been debating this for a while, and I wondered if maybe seeing the opinions of others would help me make a decision. I've been quarantining with a small group of friends since the virus shut everything down, and one of them I've taken... quite the liking to. We haven't hung out much, but every time the group gets together we seem to talk to each other the most. I want to make a move, and I am DEFINITELY going to. I'm just wondering if I should make it now, or wait until we've spent some more time together to ask for one-on-one time.

To add some detail:
I don't even have his phone number, snapchat, anything. The only way I have to contact him privately is his discord, since we share a friend server. Half the time it's hard to tell if he's interested or just funny/nice, and because of this combination of things I'm a little bit unsure if it's too early to make a move. When we hang out, we joke around and tease each other a lot, but as far as I can tell he doesn't treat me that much differently from any of the other guys in the group (one of which has a girlfriend). I know he loves cooking, and I've been considering asking him if he would be okay with showing me how to prepare some dishes, since that seems like a fun first date/way to get to know each other. But I wonder if it's too intimate/weird to ask someone I haven't spent much alone time with? What do you guys think?

(Bonus question-- should I ask him over discord or IRL? Asking him irl makes me nervous considering it would probably be in front of our other friends, but it IS usually considered the better choice...)

People say we look good together.
He does good things to me like cooking, taking me to mountains, makes effort to text and see me, teach me driving, dropping me at home, showing me to his friends saying I am rich, hugs me a lot, gave me a good sex. However, he also does bad things like asking me to clean his house, wash his underwear, pay in restaurant, buy him food, borrowing half money for his rent. He was forcing me also to open business, have a bank loan and loan for motorbike.

However time comes when the business did not smooth and I always reject him making bank loan for business. The motorbike was unfortunately stolen. My parents don’t like him too. And, I also lose my job unable to help him with his financial needs (rent and food).

He started to be distant and cold to me. He rarely spend time and even rejecting sex. He told me that I don’t care about him like giving money for his rent, his hospitalization and I can’t cook well and clean the house.

After few months I found out he cheated on me and I got mad to his other woman. He got mad to me and said We are done. I already get what I want in a girlfriend. You don’t own me. It’s your fault because cannot take care of me enough.