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QUESTION IS can I trust him and should I give him a second chance? I love him but I feel betrayed.

Entire story (if you care to read):

July
1. He broke up with me.
2. I asked him if he liked someone else and he said NO. Turns out all that time he was dating and having sex with another woman.
3. He was still texting me every day. I miss you 😘🤗😔 but also that it's better not to be together, we are far away, he wants to see me every day, I'm moody and he doesn't know how to make me happy.

August
4. I decided to be strong. I started ignoring him. He was still texting me "😔 ok I'll delete your number" "if you found someone there, just say it!!!" then sending me photos of us.
5. After having sex with one man, I was feeling so bad, I got drunk, cryed and called him. I told him I love you, I miss you and he said "I love you too kitten"
6. I told him I had sex with someone else and
I asked him if he was seeing someone and he said YES. He was seeing one girl for a month and he had sex with her but "I didn't tell you because it didn't mean anything, I want only you, I love you but I don't want a relationship where we are together so rarely".

September
7. He visited me. We clicked immediately like we've never been apart. But the next day I was thinking about what he did. I said maybe you didn't cheat on me but you lied to me, for one month you were keeping me around with cheesy messages while fucking someone else. "I wasn't keeping you around. I only wanted you, I was all the time thinking about you. I'm a bit closed. I am telling you now after you opened up to me. Do you think I'd travel 20 hours to see you if I didn't care?"
8. He sent our selfie to his mom and she said "You made me cry. Your eyes are shining. I knew something good is going on"

He wanted to hold my hand in public, meet my friends and family, but I didn't let him do any of that. He says why are you hiding me. He gave me his credit card and is planning a trip for my birthday.

John is 23 years old. He's a high school dropout, never went to college and recently got a job at Wendy's making 7 dollars an hour. He lives at home with his parents and has an allowance. He often borrows his mothers car to around. He is a rapper and has dreams of being a famous rapper. He hasn't gotten what he wanted yet but he's trying to rap. He enjoys playing video games and watching videos. He'd like to date a beautiful woman in college at least. He's tall, handsome, funny but a bit overweight. He knows how to wrap up and he can make anyone laugh or smile on a bad day. He made several people laugh to the point of tears.

Nelson is 22 years old. He's 5'3, skinny and is in college to be a doctor. He's from America but he went to England to go to school and live because it's cheaper. Nelson is kind, understanding but a little childish and socially awkward. He loves to talk a lot and he wants to make a good impression on people. When he went on a first date with a girl he spent a good amount of money on her and asked her to finger him and how his ex boyfriend used to do it. Nelson also cries easily. When someone made fun of his height or the size of his private part he cried and felt so hurt. He also cried in public because he didn't do well on a test. He loves to be cuddled, being the little spoon and reminded everyday that he is loved and appreciated. Nelson also enjoys reading and climbing mountains.
Which guy do you think is worse?

If there was a child struggling with an adult in public, what would you think or do? Lets say they're struggling and crying and trying to get away and overall making a scene. What would it take for you to say something? Would you assume that they're just throwing a fit? What if that wasn't the child's guardian and they're crying for help?