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I used to like a girl and she used to like me but nothing serious happened between us. We didn't talk at one point for like 2 months and just last week we were invited in a small "party" in one of our mutual friends' house. We didn't talk a lot there to be honest.
However, last night as she arrived at her house (like 2am) she sent me a message on facebook about a comment that i posted on a status she accidently published (both the status and comment are "completely irrelevant im mentioning them because that is how the conversation started). So after the thing about the comment she went ahead and asked me why don't I go out as much (as in in nightclubs etc). So I told her the truth that its either that im not "imvited" or im bored. So she said that if you're not invited, im inviting you. I said that because I know she's kinda drunk I would go out with her if she mentions it again during the week because at that time i didn't know if she knew what she was saying. She went on to flirt with me and ask me to go out during the weekend once again several times. The point is, because I have never been drunk myself, are drunk words sober thoughts? Because she is usually shy as a person did everything she want to tell me come out while being drunk? Or was it a case of she didn't know what she was saying?

My exgirlfriend and I broke up a year ago after 3. She got with some other guy whom I hated a month after we split and was moving to another state with him. She cut me off " becasue she wanted to respect him." She blocked me on facebook and IG and deleted all our old pics. I spent my time working out getting a new job and dating other girls trying to get over her, but part of me was still angry. After not talking for about 10 months I wanted to get closure and my things. I wanted to speak to her because I truly didn't know how I fucked up. We talked for too long and even kissed and never got to exchange things. Later I she unblocked me and re added me on IG but I never friended her on facebook. I have been talking to her off and on (sort of arguing.) Recently though she added me on facebook. I was creepin her spotify and saw all the sad music she'd been listening too and her private relationship status. I figured she and her boyfriend were going through somthing, but I didn't speak to her. Suddenly she unfriended me again (no block.) I texted her about a week later asking her if she wanted to meet up ( I knew she was moving soon) and we never got to exchange things.( We'd agreed to meet up again in earlier messages) This time though, she denied it and told me not to text her anymore. I honestly wanted to get some lunch and tell her goodbye ( I guess because she knew I still had feelings for her?) I also think she was showing out for her friends (her friend read our messages.)

RECENTLY THOUGH I saw her on Tinder, so now I know for sure she is either single or cheating.
I just don't get why she would add me when I made it clear that I didn't want to be "just friends with her" and now she's saying "Don't talk to me" She is contradicting herself. I really do miss her, but she is fucking my head up.
I would be willing to forgive her for all the shit she put me through, but at this point, I don't know whether to follow what she said or what my instinct is telli