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I walked away from this guy because he wasn’t ready for a relationship. We went out on a date as well and he wasn’t accommodating 50/50. We hooked up and he wanted friends with benefits and to do it again. I told him that I wasn’t interested because I wasn’t feeling he was genuine. (He was rude, used me for other things, and etc.) I told him I’m taking him off my social media because it helps me recover better. He told me okay and good luck.

I later learned he was messing around with people right under my nose as well. That made me even more angrier and he treated them nicer than me. Anytime I see him I avoid him or walk the other way. Anytime he sees me now, he gives me a dirty look.

I've never looked at his social media. It’s been 1 1/2 months. The other day I saw him take a look at my social media. He viewed my stories. Why is he still bugging when he obviously doesn’t give a crap about me and I ended things? He often said I was the only girl that frustrates him. Sexually and physically I guess? We weren’t really friends because I was putting in 80% of the effort.

It never fails, every work place I go, I attract 1-2 people that dislike me. They say there’s always someone that will dislike you. I say 1-2 because that’s how many people that make it evident to me, there may be more I am not sure. I’m quiet and to myself, I don’t go out of my way to please people and make a great impression. I used to and that still led in being treated like crap. There are those that seem well liked and happy, I’ve never been so fortunate. Am I just unlucky and it’s by chance I encounter tension? Or am I unrealistic and this is common? I’m 25 and this is my first real job in higher education.