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A few years ago I used to go to a females only gym and tbh I prefered it over regular gyms.

I currently go to a regular gym and don't think the whole thing is that much of a big deal, but I did feel slightly more comfortable being surrounded only by females.

First of all I felt less intimidated. Whenever I go to the gym i find it hard to weight train because the weights area is filled with almost exclusively big muscular men. I feel a bit out of place and sometimes I'm worried they'd get irritated at me trying to "occupy their space".

Second of all, I've been starred at weirdly a couple of times while using this machine. Here again, it's quite uncomfortable to me.

And last but not least, when I'm in my out of shape phase, I feel less insecure and less judged by being only with females. I'm not worried about what men think of my body. In fact, in my females only gym, I've seen so many very large girl who would have probably felt less comfortable around men.

So I’ve done it all, one night stands, constant hook ups, waited until the third or fifth date. Not have sex until after a couple of months. But none seem to workout... considering that I’m still single. I think I’m a decent looking girl and I’m very smart (glad guys nowadays find this attractive though some are still intimidated by it) but for the life of me I haven’t been able to find a boyfriend after 2.5 years. I’m not sure if it has to do with the sex, those that I had sex with after the first/few dates didn’t stay but neither did the ones I had sex with after a while. So when is the right time. I’ve gotten all kind of opinions from guys on this topic, some day don’t do it on the first day, guys like the chase other say it doesn’t matter... but it does.